Lots more going on, but I’m out of time. I’ll try to get to it soon. Lots of Halloween prep, lunch today with Grandpa and Grandma, and more. Life is busy.
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A weekend getaway
We took a last minute trip to Franklin this week while the kids had a few days off from school. Everyone had a blast.
- Mema humored Eve by playing tic-tac-toe with Eve rules. I think that meants Eve always wins. :)
- Rosy gave Lex his first taste of iGaming :)
- Love notes for Mema
- Hopa came to visit! Haven’t seen her in ages. Eve promtly made friends.
- Lex set up his own touch-a-truck. He was so proud. All Hess all the time.
- Resting after the walk
- Kids will find any hill and roll down it. I love that!
- I really wanted a picture of them sitting nicely on this funny bench, but they were not in the mood to cooperate with the camera.
- The pond
- Kisses from Karma
- Quick play break
- A fall walk (or run, for the kids!)
- Hugs for Karma
- We saw the first snowfall of the season. Eve was thrilled to wipe off the car. Let’s see how long that enthusiasm lasts!
A tough Tuesday
After a super busy week and a traveling weekend, Lex surprised me by going to school happily on Monday morning. He was eager to show off his new lunch box carrier. Monday night he went to bed saying he was too tired to go to school on Tuesday, but he woke up this morning and remembered it was library day and went to school. I thought things were going well, but then he came home with this:
His teacher sends home a chart every day with a smiley, “straight” face, or frowny. So far he has always gotten a smiley and only twice before has he ever received a “code.” Codes give the parents more info on why the kids got less than a smiley. Every day after school I ask if he had a good day and every day he says “Yes, I did!” One day he even said, “Mom, you don’t have to ask me, I always have a good day.” Today after school when I asked the usual question he said, “Oh, I don’t think so,” followed quickly by “but don’t look at my chart today.” Of course I looked!
He had a dentist appointment after school and was very nervous about it. I think that combined with the busy weekend caught up to him in school. I was happy he was doing well and made it to school, but perhaps he would have done better taking a day off. Sigh. You just never know with kids.
After the dentist we ran a few errands, including a trip to the toy store to buy a birthday present for a party this weekend, and the kids were both super well behaved! Then we came home, had dinner at 4:30, bath, stories, and bed. They were both asleep by 6:15pm! Yay! Hopefully that helps make tomorrow a better day at school.
Smart days
The kids have been having serious smart bursts lately. Eve has been doing a lot with letters and sounds, taking a real interest in learning them. Lex has been rediscovering games he hasn’t played in awhile and doing some great drawings. They amaze me daily!

Eve has been spending some serious time with the Word Whammer lately. She's really getting in to letters and sounds.

Lex has been doing a ton of drawing on the Doodle Pro and white board lately. I wish he would draw on paper so I could save it, but probably it's better to save it as photo anyway. Here he drew a house on the top and a"Map of the Earth" on the bottom.

On Sunday the kids spent a ton of time in the living room, Lex playing games by himself and Eve doing puzzles. Alan was in there too, working on the computer. It was a quiet day.

Eve has been super into puzzles lately. She even does them over and over sometimes. She did this one four or five times before moving on to another one.

Lex laughed and laughed and LAUGHED at the silly sentences he made. Then he asked if he could take a picture :)
Eve
More about Lex
Here are two more quick thoughts about Lex. Have I mentioned him lately? He amazes me and amuses me daily.
This morning Eve, as she often does, was being stubborn and refusing to get herself dressed. Sometimes I do it for her and sometimes I leave her alone in the bathroom for hours (ok, more like tens of minutes) until she gets unstubborn and gets herself dressed. This morning, however, Lex offered to get her dressed. She loved the idea. He’s such a fun big brother!

Socks on. (PS. My bathroom looks awful in pictures. I fear these bathroom photos will come back to haunt me in the future.)
Also, his class photos came in today. Yay! I love the class photo and am excited to now be able to put faces with names. Although, I realized that I could name about half of the class and those were the kids he always talks about. When he told me the rest of the names they were all kids he has rarely mentioned. So I guess I’m doing ok on knowing his friends :) Anyway, I ordered the smallest package this year, mostly because I just wanted that class picture, but for some reason they gave me two packets. Slightly different poses. I stopped in at the office on my way out and told them I got two. The lady said “Lucky you!” I asked if I was supposed to choose one and return the other or something and she said, “Nope. If they sent you two, you get to keep two.” Sweet! Both poses are kind of goofy, but that’s Lex. I love him!
Time to clean the bathrooms
While making idle conversation with the kids in the tub tonight I said, “Eve, I think tomorrow you and I will be cleaning bathrooms!” She looked shocked and said, “AGAIN?!?!” Hahaha… this is funny because (a) it has been awhile (a long while!) since we last cleaned bathrooms and (b) that’s just how I feel! Again!?!? Didn’t we just do that last month?! I often have similar feelings around meals (didn’t I just feed you last night?!) and dishes.
A beautiful day!
Today was a beautiful day. Perfect fall weather, busy but not stressed, an outdoor afternoon. Just perfect.
I spent the morning running around, dropping kids at school, awesome workout at the gym, back to pick up Eve, shower and back to the gym (for a session on goal setting!), a little shopping and home in time to meet Lex at the bus stop. That was hectic, but Eve was in great spirits so it went well. After a quick snack we headed outside. The sun was beautiful, the leaves were abundant and I couldn’t put the camera down! (you can click on these images to see them bigger)
- Eve raking
- Eve in the leaves
- Adding a face on our new friend
- Giving pumpkin boy some hair
- Nice smile!
- Smiling kids
- Smiling kids!
- Photo by Lex
- Photo by Eve (Lex didn’t want to pose with me)
- I wanted to get a sweet picture of them sitting together… this is as close as I got!
- This is what they did most of the time I was trying to get that sweet picture. This one cracks me up though. She is yelling and he’s calmy ignoring her and eating a snack.
- This made me think of a leaf bus
- Eve in the leaves
- Photo by Lex. He’s got talent!
- Who is this girl??
- Hanging around in the tree
- Eve in a tree
- Lex in a tree
- Lex fixing pumpkin boy’s shoe
- Can’t have an afternoon outside with hitting the swings.
- Eve’s new trick. I used to love swinging like this!
- Lex has been super crafty lately! I love it. While I was making dinner tonight he decided he wanted to be with me, so he got out some crayons and paper and made this. All his idea from start to finish! Later, after the photo, he added “BOO!” to it.
- Halloween sneak peek (that’s Lex in there!)
- Eve’s turn in the spidey suit.
- After trying on his Halloween costume Lex decided to make himself a goody bag for trick-or-treating. I love it!! It’s not very practical and quite small, but I love the idea and his ingenuity.
A quiet day at home
We had another busy weekend. Rosy came to visit (yay!) and we went apple picking and had dinner with Grandma and other fun stuff. I have photos, but I’m going to post them another time. Right now I want to talk about today.
This morning was different. Our usual waking time, 6am, came and went. I got up at 6:15 (internal alarm, I guess) and Eve got up at 6:30 and joined me for breakfast. Shortly after 7:00 I went upstairs to wake up Lex. I opened the door, turned off the fan, took of his blankets… he kept sleeping. I rubbed his back for a minute (ok, mostly checking to make sure he was still breathing!) and told him it was time to wake up. Then I left. Ten minutes later I went back up and tried to pick him up. He was out hard! I told him it was time to wake up for school. He shook his head a bit and kept sleeping. I gave up. If he was that tired I figured he must need the sleep! I turned the fan back on, closed the door, and left him alone. At 8:30 he got up to use the bathroom, but insisted he was still tired and needed more sleep. At 9:00 he came downstairs and said he was hungry but wanted to go back to bed after breakfast. Weird. As we talked he told me that he didn’t want to go to gym class today (not the first time I’ve heard this!) and therefore wanted to just sleep all day and wake up tomorrow. Of course this didn’t really happen, but I did let him stay home today instead of bringing him to school late.
We had no plans for the day and at one point it occurred to me that it was just like the slower days, just the three of us home, playing all day. They played super well together. I played with them off and on, also getting some exercise and chores done. Lex was very lovey and made love notes to people. Very sweet. I have to figure out what’s going on with gym class, but to be perfectly honest it was really nice having him home today.
Tomorrow is library day and he’s excited for a new book, so I think he’ll be up bright and early :)
Rich and Poor
There are moments in life I wish I had a photographic memory. Tonight it was a video camera memory. Or the ability to blog directly from my brain. Ears -> brain -> blog. That would probably be dangerous.
“Let’s play a game I made up called Rich and Poor,” said Lex in the tub tonight. “The person with the most toys is rich and the person with less toys is poor.” They both agreed to the game and quietly divided up all the toys floating in the bathtub. When there was a clear divide between them Lex counted up the toys. “I have nine toys,” he announced, “and you have four. That means I’m rich.” Eve agreed and declared herself poor. I waited for a moment to see where this was going, noticing that they didn’t seem phased to be rich or poor. Nor did they assign a goodness or badness to either word. Just words. After a moment Lex said, “Ok, now the person who is poor gets more toys,” and began handing over his toys to her. :) They took turns handing toys back and forth to each other, stopping to count each time and decide who was rich and who was poor. After a few turns Lex noticed that each time he added up his toys and her toys he came up with the number 13, so it must be a math game. He likes math games. They continued playing the math game for a few more minutes and then got out of the tub.
I asked him where he heard about rich and poor and he said he just made them up. Doubtful, but it’s fascinating to see and hear the things he comes up with. I never know if it’s from school, classmates, books, etc. Definitely one of the more interesting parts of parenting. :)


















































