I can hardly believe I’m saying this, but Lex is prepping for high school! The 8th grade class went on a tour there yesterday, and tonight was “8th grade family night” at the high school. We met the principal and assistant principal, met some teachers, got some questions answered. All very crazy. And yet, we all feel ready. He is excited for it and I’m not nervous, which is a HUGE change from the elementary-to-middle school transition a few short years ago. He’s come a long way. At the tour yesterday they got a course catalog and a form to fill out to select their first semester classes. He’s hoping to take a 3D printing class and I’m hoping he tests out of Algebra I. Have I mentioned that math debacle this year? It was frustrating, but I think it will all turn out ok. I’ve been emailing with the high school math director and she has been super helpful. It was nice to put a face to the name tonight and for her to meet Lex. He also chatted with the high school band director and came away from that all excited to join pep band! He already does (and will continue doing) concert band and jazz band, now he’s excited for pep band too! Pep band plays at the home football games! That will bring a new element to our lives. :) I’m not thrilled with the way they handle the language program, but that’s a small concern. Lex is excited and that’s AMAZING! Before I know it my little guy will be in high school! (He’s not so little any more!)
The HMMS Spring Concert this year was great. Mostly Lex, of course. :) I love watching him on the drum. He’s such a neat kid.
Volume up. Enjoy!
I don’t remember any of the song names and he’s in bed now, so you’ll have to just guess. :)
The project for last weekend was a book report project. All year they’ve had to do “book talks” each month about a book they were reading. This month the teacher decided to mix it up and gave out a variety of options. Lex decided to do a book trailer about a Minecraft book. Eve chose the option of making a playlist of songs to describe the first Artemis Fowl book. She had a great video project started with images from the internet that resemble the characterless, but when she started looking for music she got frustrated with the difficulty in finding the songs she wanted in good quality, not remixed, and, of course, for free. Alan and I had a good laugh. We remember those days of downloading free music! She ended up just doing a poster for a different book.
Lex, on the other hand, perservered and made a really amazing book trailer! Alan helped by recording Lex playing the scenes in Minecraft, then Lex used WeVideo to put it all together, with sounds and voice overs. It came out great!
Round two of the science project update. :) Lex decided to make his 3D model Earth with a more traditional styrofoam. He wanted to make it nesting spheres, but after an extended visit to the craft store where they didn’t have exactly what he wanted and everything was very expensive, he decided on the standard cut-out.
I think it’s the epitome of a traditional middle school project, and it looked similar to many others that were presented that day, but he put a lot of work into it and was satisfied with the results. :)
Lex’s school participates in a District Band event where selected students from 25 different schools come together for two days of musical fun. This year Lex auditioned and was selected to attend. He was thrilled! The event was all day yesterday (he got to miss school!) and today, with a final performance for family and friends this afternoon. It was a long drive (apparently a big district!) but we had fun and definitely enjoyed the music!
The high school band performed first and they were fantastic!! I didn’t record much of their performance, but I loved these golden bongo drums and wanted to share.
Then the middle school band was up. Lex played the bass drum for the first song, the symbols in the second and third songs, and the castanets in the fourth song.
We had to stop and charge the car on the way home, so we invited Macy to join us for dinner. Macy was also in the band. She plays trombone! We had a loud and silly ride home, with a stop to recharge us (pizza) and the car (electricity) on the way.
I’m exhausted from this working nonsense. I worked a whole day today, plus karate! Luckily there were no drum lessons this week. LOL! Before bed I wanted to write a quick post about some growing-up observations I had with Lex this afternoon.
In the car on the way to karate I asked if he had any homework today. He said, “Well, kind of.” Apparently his ELA teacher gave them an assignment, due Monday, to write three things they want to accomplish this year. “Basically goals, without calling them goals,” he tells me. Goal setting is one of his least favorite things. Right up there with vaccinations and trying new foods. All have left him on the floor, under chairs, in tears. As I mentally prepared myself for a weekend of goal setting with Lex, he said, “I’m just going to write three down and then forget them.” Um… ok. Not really the intended goal, but certainly a suggestion I’ve made in the past in an effort to get him off the floor. He then went on to tell me the goals he decided to set! The first one is to get all of his grades up to an A, the second one he couldn’t remember, and the third was to keep his assigned 40-book challenge sheet up to date. All good goals, I assume. Then he tells me that he had a B+ in science, but when he checked it today his teacher had a put in a few more grades and he was up to an A again. Check that goal off the list! He also told me that he’s sure he’s read at least 40 books already (they are allowed to count books they read over the summer, so yeah, he’s read at least 40!), so he’s going to just write down a bunch of books he knows he’s read and be done with the challenge. LOL! Check that goal off the list! Now he just needs to remember what Goal #2 was.
I realize this is not the intent of goal setting, and I will also confess that I am TERRIBLE at goal setting, but I did notice several points of growth in this conversation, and I shared them with him. First, he didn’t cry over this assignment! It didn’t even stop him in his tracks. Instead of getting hung up on whether or not he could do the goals, he just wrote something down. He’s a very honest person and in the past the idea of committing to something he didn’t know if he could accomplish really got him stuck. Today he was able to write them down and move on! Second, I remember (not so fondly) the days of elementary school when he was assigned to read for 20 minutes a day. After reading for hours he would then fall apart because he didn’t “do his homework” because he didn’t time himself reading for exactly 20 minutes. When I tried to tell him that he just read for an hour, he struggled to fill out the stupid form with a start and stop time because it wasn’t, in his mind, an “official” reading for 20 minutes. Today he has the flexibility to say, “yeah, I read those books in the past, that counts!” and move on! Awesome!! Again, maybe not entirely the intent of the assignment, but boy these are big milestones for him!
The icing on the cake came at karate today. As he’s walking into the dojo he notices that most of the other kids have these red sparring gloves on. He turns to me and says, “Oh, I forgot, we are going to start doing sparring on Wednesday and I think I need gloves today.” Umm… ok?! But guess what, he went in anyway, without the gloves and all was fine. They offer sparring classes on Friday and Lex hasn’t had any interest at all, though he told me later tonight that he’s kind of interested in sparring, but just doesn’t want to go to karate on Fridays. :) So anyway, I was watching the class today and they are wearing these big gloves and mouth guards and I’m thinking this might be the end of karate for Lex. After class I asked him if he wanted to stop at the office and see about buying the gear. He said yes!! YES! He wants to wear those gloves AND is willing to wear a mouth guard. A MOUTH GUARD!? Can you believe it? (He hasn’t actually put it in yet, so we’ll see how that goes.) He’s even willing to wear the rest of the sparring gear when the class gets to that point.
Of course that means we have to buy all that extra gear, but hey, if he’s willing (and excited!) to wear it, I’ll buy it!
It’s amazing to think back to how stuck he used to get over seemingly the smallest things and how far he has come. It really gives me faith in his future! He is a pretty amazing guy!
Jazz band and Lex’s first performance on the drum set.
Lex had a belt test this week. He’s now a brown belt! That’s just one level below black belt! (However, they way they do it there’s actually a variety of brown/black combinations to get through before you get to the true black belt.) Sensei is sick so Shidoin Paul ran the test. He said the nicest things about Lex at the end. Then he went home and told his wife (whom I work with) how proud he is of Lex. <3
This is Lex’s final year in FIRST Lego League. The program runs through 8th grade, then they are able to move on to FIRST Robotics (no Legos, lots of machining and Java programming).
I coached again this year and we again had three teams, with 27 kids total. We went to the state competition on Sunday. It was the usual big, crazy, busy, 12hr day. We had a blast. This year the teams brought home two trophies too! Green team earned one for their research and Red team (the team Lex was on) won one for their innovate robot design. Lex was pretty instrumental in that. I was happy for him to have that accomplishment on his final year.
I’m happy with how well the season went, how organized we were at the tech center, how many kids had a great time, how well Lex connected with another kid on the team, and overall how we’ve grown the FLL team in Hartford. I’ll miss it next year… but not enough to coach again! LOL!
Now, if you want an awwwww moment, check out little Lex at his first FLL competition. <3 <3
Hi all! It’s December! I’m sitting at drum lessons, listening to Lex practice his Jazz Band piece. It’s pretty cool. On Monday he auditioned for a District Band program, which is basically just a weekend of middle school kids jamming together. It’s pretty selective, but he’s good and he auditioned on three different instruments (timpani, snare drum, and bells), so he’s feeling pretty good about things. We’re hoping to hear the results soon. Not that we really need more things to fill our days.
We are wrapping up the final week of Lego League, and (hopefully) our final year with it. Lex ages out of it next year and I’ve already made the announcement that I won’t be coaching if he’s not participating. I’ve basically taken over the program though (I have a bad habit of doing that!), so I’m hoping I can slip out without too much disruption.
The usual holiday parties have set in, plus field trips, concerts, and plays (that we’ll be in the audience for), but whenever I start to feel too stressed, I just remind myself of last fall and feel grateful for all I’m NOT doing this year!
I put up the advent boxes again, but this year the cat is taking them down for me every night. Not helpful! Eve has been putting them all back up each morning.
Eve is helpful. She’s growing right up, but still a very silly, Harry Potter series obsessed child. She has a crush on Draco Malfoy and wants to own all of the Harry Potter merchandise that exists in this world. She might be a little materialistic. :)
A friend asked the other day if we are hosting a cookie party again this year. I said, “uhh…., honestly, it hasn’t even crossed my mind.” :/ It would be fun, but I don’t think it’s going to happen. I haven’t even made any cookies yet! We put up some decorations last weekend, and we’ll get a tree this weekend. Maybe that will kick start the holiday spirit. :) In the meantime, I’m enjoying my own little drummer boy right here.