Baby has a heartbeat

The good news of the day is that there’s a
baby in there with a good strong heartbeat. The midwife is
still unsure of the due date estimate though, so I get an early
ultrasound next Wednesday. Cool, huh? It’s gonna cost me a
fortune (crappy insurance), but I’m excited to see baby a
little earlier than originally planned. This early one will
allow them to set a more precise due date, then I’ll also have
the routine one at the 18 week mark. I’m excited.

The neat (and weird) thing about this
pregnancy is that, because it follows so closely behind my
first one, I find myself a little less excited about
everything. Don’t ever tell baby two, of course! :) I remember
when we first heard Lex’s heartbeat Alan and I were so excited
and eager. This time around we knew what we were listening for
(the helicopter sound) and waited patiently. I even found
myself watching Lex to see how he’d react. I’m just as happy to
have another, but I guess the thrill of newness just isn’t
there anymore. Weird. Now the newness is how Lex will react to
everything :)

B2

We are in the 11th week now and the weight
gain has begun. As with my first pregnancy, I lost several
pounds in the beginning, but now we’re going back up. Because
I’m overweight to begin with, they recommended I gain 25lbs
with Lex. Sadly I gained 33lbs and it was sooo much harder than
I ever expected to lose it again. This time they recommeded
15lbs. We’ll see about that :) I broke out the maternity pants
today though. The past few days I’ve been wearing my jeans
unbuttoned or some running pants I have (not that I ever run in
them). Today we are having company though, so I need to be a
little more presentable. And I need to clean the house!!

Anyway, another thing that just started
happening is that when I lay on my belly I can feel a tiny
lump. Almost like I’m lying on someting in the bed, but it’s
just baby two :) That’s a fun feeling. I was reading the baby
Zig blog to see how all of this compared to the first time
around, but turns out I didn’t start that blog until 22 weeks,
so we’ll never know.

PS>
Lex took a great nap yesterday afternoon and when we woke up
one bump was almost gone and the other much smaller. We all had
a bad night last night, but I don’t think it was head-injury
related :)

Baby scare

Lex gave me a good scare today. He fell of
the bed backwards, not the first time and I’m sure it won’t be
the last, but this time he got two big welts on the back of his
head. All of the other times he’s fallen (yes, he’s an active
boy) he maybe got red marks, but nothing more. This time two
quarter-sized welts popped up immediately, one purple and one
with a red line through it like it almost broke skin, but not
quite. Needless to say he screamed (which is good) and resisted
the ice pack I tried to use. Meanwhile I got right on the phone
with the pedi’s office. I was really scared and ready to take
him into the emergency room! Silly mommy. The nurse was very
nice and said that as long as he is conscience (yep) and not
vomiting (nope) then there’s no need to bring him in. She told
me a few things to watch for and suggested we watch a little TV
while he reclines on my chest (with ice pack between us). Very
smart nurse. I made up a bag of ice and he snuggled his head
right in to it for 1/2 hour of Baby Einstein. It was scary. I’m
gonna have to toughen up though, I’m sure, as he gets older and
more rambunctious I’m sure there will be many more scary
moments.

My little man

I love this little man. He
makes me so happy. I’ve been reading my Baby Zig blog and the
first few months on this blog to remind myself about pregnancy
and newborns. It seems like forever ago. I’m dreading the
complete lack of sleep (I slept in one hour bursts!!) but I’m
excited about the rest. And every time I look at Lex I’m just
amazed at the process. I wonder if we could ever make such a
perfect being again. Poor Baby 2 might be doomed from the
start. :)

We made apple pie yesterday.
Lex helped by standing on the chair and eating the apples. He
also threw in a few of his own ingredients (measuring spoon,
jar of cinnamon, etc.). Today he got back up on the chair to
eat grapes out of the sink (collendar) while I made lunch. He’s
is so helpful. Actually, yesterday he really was helpful when I
was packing the closet. He put all of our shoes into the bottom
of the wardrobe box and then he put all of the extra hangers
into the box too. It was really very helpful and he worked so
hard!

Ok, it’s late now and I gotta get
lots of sleeping in before March :)

Backups

After a brief (2 day) blog outage last
week I decided it was time to stop being lazy and make an
offline archive of my blog. Blogger doesn’t make this easy, but
hey, you get what you pay for, right? They did post a little
tutorial that got me started. I have
a few additional notes if anyone else wants to do the same.
Since this is the official baby book as well, I would be very
sad to lose it.

Lots going on lately and
the boy is growing up so fast. I’m going to go play with him
now though because he has been exceptionally patient while I
figured out this archiving thing. It’s cold and dreary out
today and I’m pretty sure he’s as bored as can be :) More
later.

PS> Blogger’s spell
checker doesn’t recognize the words “blog” or “Blogger” :)
Funny.

I’m weak

This whole pacifier thing is so much
harder than I’d hoped. Baby falls asleep pretty easily at night
without it, but naps during the day are impossible. He sits in
his crib and cries and cries. Then, between sobs, he starts
asking for his plug. Over the monitor I hear “puh, puh, puh”
(plug) and I know he’s sitting there making the sign and
everything. It breaks my heart. Eventually I give in and give
him the plug. When I do he looks so grateful and puts his head
down and goes right to sleep. I know giving in is probably the
worst thing I can do, but, well…. I’m weak.

Photo fix

I know some of you are
suffering from photo withdrawl (not many here and I’m horrible
at updating the real photo site lately), so here are a few to
tide you over. We went to a farmer’s market yesterday and Lex,
as usual, had a great time. He spent most of the time dancing
to the music or trying to rearrange people’s vegetable
displays. He’s a very helpful boy :) We met the Chad-A-Saurus.
Lex was interested and amused and followed him around for
awhile. We also bought some cornbread muffins (Lex was asking
for a snack) and a bunch of multi-color carrots. I think I’ll
cook them up for dinner tonight. The first pic here is just
from dinner the other night. The boy gets so messy when he
eats, especially when he gets tired and starts rubbing his eyes
and ears.

My toddler

Lex is such a toddler these days. It’s
adorable, hysterical, and sometimes frusterating. He likes to
get mad at me and storm off into his room. He can slam his
door, but he can’t open it again :) So I have to go rescue him.
Hehehe… Diaper changes are always fun because he uses both
hands and feet to try to prevent me from putting a new diaper
on him. He fights and fights and says “no, no, no, no.” The
game is to figure out a way to get his hands busy as a
distraction. Sometimes I can sing “The itsy, bitsy spider” and
he’ll do the hand motions. Other times we play “big Lex, little
Lex” and he does the signs. Each diaper change requires a new
game. Another toddler-ism, I vacuumed the house today and you
can just watch him waiver between bold and scare. He runs up to
the vacuum and tries to stand on it, but then suddenly runs
away and hides behind the fan (like that will protect him!). Or
he’ll get his little musical roller toy thing (that is supposed
to be like a lawn mower, we think) and “vacuum” with it. When I
turned on the vacuum today he ran and grabbed his toy and
walked around the bedroom in front of me. I told him he was
doing an excellent first pass :) Then, suddenly, he ran away
and hid behind the chair in the living room. His running is
equally funny to watch. He kicks his legs out to the side and
does a sort of hopping run. He’s pretty good at it though and
can make good time. He’s crazy, crazy, crazy and I love
it!

Home Depot Hell

Had another less than satisfying
experience at Home Depot yesterday. Just me and Lex this time,
trying to place an order for the remaining cabinets we need.
Mind you, I have done *all* of the research and work on this
thing. I have a complete list of what I need and laughed at the
website when it said “bring this list to Home Depot and they
will help you finalize your kitchen and place your order.” Not
my Home Depot! The cabinet lady was so rude to me this time
that I actually walked out on her. I grabbed my list and told
her that she is the rudest most unhelpful person I have ever
met and that I would be taking my business elsewhere. Then I
found a manager and told him as well. I’ve never done that
before! It felt good (until I cried on the phone to Alan later
:) ). The manager was very nice and helped me load the few
items I was able to find into the car. He also said he’d like
to set me up with one of the other cabinet sales people (my
luck she’s the only one there everytime I go) and he hoped they
wouldn’t lose our business. Not like they really care, I’m
sure. So now I’m trying to decided if I should let him set up
an appointment with someone else, or if I should just get in
the car and drive for an hour to the next nearest Home Depot.
Only one Home Depot around here… damn country living!
:)