BREAKTHROUGH!!

Oh what a day! Besides the obvious niceties (running errands, happy stories, a trip to the blueberry patch) Lex surprised me by joining us for dinner tonight! Alan said he joined them for dinner last night, but I wasn’t around so it doesn’t count! :) Tonight he ate about three full carrots and half a cucumber (cumbercue, he calls them, just to make me laugh) and he sat with us the whole time. He even smelled the rest of the dinner and asked what was in it. Oh happy day!

Then… to top off the evening, he got his tooth out!! All by himself! For the past few days he’s been letting Alan and I wiggle it and gently pull on it. Tonight he said it was really loose and while we read stories he worked on it. He figured out that he could push it in such a way that it seemed to get looser, so he did. While we were laying down (lights out, all settled) he said, “I think it’s out!” Lights back on, lots of cheering and jumping about. Yay! He has been so brave lately. I really admire him and I’m so proud of how rational he can be, when given the chance. We are working on big (for him) changes around here and he’s holding up really well. I think I need to go squeeze him now! :)

Our first road race!

We did it! We ran a 4 mile race! I am more surprised by this than Alan :) He was a bit more confident. He’s so sweet he ran with me for the first 3+ miles to keep me motivated. It was fun. He started his final sprint before I did and we came in at 41:50 and 44:04. Hot and sweaty and happy! :) The kids were whining about being left behind, but they they were whining when the babysitter left because they were having fun and wanted her to stay. I’m glad we got a babysitter. The whole thing was a bit confusing (what with it being our first and all) and it was nice not to have to keep track of the kids as well. There is a half marathon in August that we may do a relay team for. They do 3.x mile, 6.x mile, 3.x mile legs. I can’t do the whole 13.1 total, but I can handle a 3 mile leg and maybe the 6 mile one. We shall see!

Me and Alan

Before the race...

After the race

After the race (with our friends Sarah in blue and Angela in pink)

Loose tooth!

Lex has a loose tooth! Eek! He’s growing up so fast. It’s the bottom, front one, right next to his gap. There is a big tooth growing in the gap and I’m sure it’s pushing those babies out. He told me this morning that I hurt his tooth with the toothbrush. When I checked things out, there it was, wiggling back and forth. I tried to take a picture of it today but he isn’t very excited and didn’t want to show it off. Oh well, maybe another time. This will be a whole new experience in parenting!

Happy Birthday Lex!

Happy 5th Birthday to my boy today! Where does the time go?! There are periods of my life that I have totally forgotten, and then there are days that I remember in full detail. Five years ago today was one of those days. We ended up holding a tiny baby boy that night, a boy that would change our lives, and now here we are, five years later, with a big kid! A sweet, helpful, strong-willed, intelligent, smiley big kid. I feel very fortunate today. (’cause it’s all about me, you know!)

We had pancakes for breakfast and I made him a silly card (crayons and construction paper at 11:30 last night!) to start his day off right. No presents, yet. Alan has a geeky one for him this afternoon. I’ll let Alan tell you all about it some other time. Lex took his “moon rocks” to school and everyone was wishing him a Happy Birthday. He was super proud, and thrilled when his teacher noticed his shorts and t-shirt. Eve and I made cupcakes this morning and we’ll have them at snack time. Alan and Lex are going to an energy meeting tonight. They are both excited. Eve and I are going grocery shopping, and a little less excited :) I need to start planning for the birthday party (non-party) this weekend. I think I’m going to stop at the balloon store while we’re out today. That will make him happy :)

Lex with his cookies

Happy 5th Birthday Lex!

Lex and Eve

The birthday boy with his proud little sister

Artwork

A little morning artwork. He drew a house and a tree, then a boy climbing the tree and smiling sun. I love it!

Kindergarten Orientation

Lex had his kindergarten orientation today. It was rather uneventful. He was “excited and just a little bit nervous” as we got to school. I told him there would be four kids in his group so he got a little bit more nervous when he saw a parking lot full of cars. I guess I had forgotten to tell him it was a school day and there would be four in his group, but a whole school full of kids as well. He did fine. They brought my into a room to do paperwork and he went away happily with the principal. Afterwards he told me he built a block tower with someone and did some other things, but he couldn’t remember what. His favorite part was that he got an extra snack today! They had graham crackers and apple juice. He told me he said no thank you to the apple juice and they let him get a drink of water from the fountain instead. He was a little sad that they wouldn’t give him another graham cracker (probably didn’t have enough time), but I bought him some at the store today and he was thrilled :) Sometimes it’s the easy things that are the best. Anyway, a non-eventful event, I suppose. He seems to be no more or less excited about kindergarten in the fall. I think he still wants to stay at pre-k. :)

Happy Anniversary!

I realize this is a week late. I wanted to write a nice Happy Anniversary post, but on our actual 10 year anniversary I was in a less than celebratory mood. However, I do want to write the post.

Last Tuesday Alan and I celebrated our 10th anniversary and my parents celebrated their 30th! Happy Anniversary!! Marriage is such a complex thing, it truly feels like an accomplishment to be together, and happy!, after 10+ years and still wanting more. I have lots of deep, sappy thoughts flitting through my head but sadly I’m not eloquent enough to capture them. Sigh. So instead I will say thank you to my parents for modeling a strong marriage, through the good and the bad, and to my husband for standing by my side. Always. I am a very fortunate woman to have such love and strength all around me. Happy Anniversary and here’s to many, many more!!

Me and Alan

A goofy picture on a super windy day at Syracuse University... where it all began!

Mom and Dad

My lovely parents after a busy weekend chasing the kids. Thank you!!!!

Happy Birthday Eve!!

Happy Birthday to you! Happy Birthday to you! Happy Birthday dear Eve… Happy Birthday to you!!

Birthday morning

Here are her small presents from us. I like to leave them little surprises for their birthdays.

Birthday Eve

She said,"Ohh... what is this?"

Pretend cake party

The kids had pretend cake while I made breakfast. I also got her an apron, but she said, "I don't need an apron mom, it's just pretend food!"

Today we celebrated Eve’s 3rd birthday. My baby is growing up! I made her another birthday cake (red velvet with raspberry butter cream frosting and chocolate bunnies). I made a small cake for the family and 12 cupcakes to take to a playdate this morning. We ate cupcakes at 9am with friends. It was fun. Yesterday Lex was very upset that I wouldn’t let him stay home from school. He had it in his head that we were having another party for Eve and almost cried when he realized that our family and friends were not coming back today. It was sad. He decided to go to school and told EVERYONE that it was her birthday. She wore her birthday crown to school too, so it was pretty obvious. His teacher said he’s been talking about it all week :) After lunch and naps (good naps from both of them!) we went to the aquatic center for Lex’s lessons. Eve and I swam and we all had fun. They were both really tired though! We ended up leaving after an hour because Eve was crying (some kids bumped into her on the slide) and she said she wanted to go home now. Then Alan and I subjected ourselves to some parental torture and took two exhausted kids out to a crowded restaurant for dinner. Eve’s choice, but in hindsight we all would have had more fun (and at least three of us would have eaten better) if we had just gone home. Oh well. Once home it was past bedtime but I had pink and red cake in the fridge, so we sang Happy Birthday and had cake. It was a long day! :) Luckily they went to bed with minimum fuss and I hope to be in bed soon too!

Happy cake girl

Yumm.... red cake :)

Big bite

A big three year old bite of red cake!

Red cake

Red velvet cake (a very unnatural color!), with pink raspberry butter cream frosting and Annie's chocolate bunny decorations.

Happy Birthday Eve! We love you!

Party girl!

We celebrated Eve’s birthday this weekend.  A good time was had by all.  As usual we had a crowded house and sugared up kids.  She wanted a chocolate party, which is hard to do for a three year old!  I think it went well though.  My nauseous stomach even cooperated that day, though it was back in force the next day. The party continued into Sunday and by last night we were all exhausted!  Today the kids both eagerly took naps and I napped the entire time with them.  Whewh!  One more recovery day and then a mini party for her actual birthday on Wednesday.  Just one more day until she is a big three year old!

I’ll let the photos tell the party story…

Fruit platter

My lovely fruit platter to balance out the chocolate fest.

The birthday girl

The birthday girl in a new party dress from Grammy Lynn.

Cupcakes

The cake this year was in flux right up to the end. Eve and I had a cupcake thing all planned out, then about a week before the party, she started insisting on cake instead. Turns out she wanted the EXACT same cake as our friend Dylan had at his party. We settled on a different style of cake, but the day before the party I realized I didn't have the right pans. Ugh. Back to cupcakes. I had this vision in mind so I made cupcakes and cookies the day before and during naptime on party day my dad helped me set them all up. Then Rachel came in and suggested putting jelly beans on top. Genius! A complete team effort that turned out really cute, and delicious! Thanks all!!

Eve and her balloon

Eve and her balloon, which she calls Tommy. She REALLY wanted this balloon and was asking about it for weeks. It was a big hit at the party.

Three girls

I took a ton of pictures of these pretty girls sitting together. Caitlin, Eve, and Molly.

Three girls again

One more of the three of them.

Kitty

Kitty. Eve loves, LOVES, soft cuddly things.

Eve and the DoodlePro

I like this picture because it looks like she's saying "ooohhh" :)

Too many crowns

Molly was trying to be helpful and put ALL of Eve's new hair bands on her head at once. Eve was not impressed.

Cake time

Look at how excited Dylan and Eve look! They are so cute!

Chocolate covered Caitlin

Chocolate covered Caitlin

Crazy doctor

Who is this crazy doctor!?

Doctor Eve

Doctor Eve gives Molly a flu shot. Eve likes to make sure EVERYONE (people, animals, toys, etc.) gets flu shots daily.

Leftover cupcakes

Totally coincidentally, the leftover cupcakes left a message.

Pancakes

At breakfast the next morning Eve works VERY hard to cut her pancakes.

Reading with Mema

A very tired girl reading stories with Mema

Dry nights

I’m a little nervous to write this and jinx us, but Lex has now gone six nights in a row without wetting the bed!  Could he possibly be done with diapers?  He has been marking D on his calendar each morning that he wakes up with a dry diaper and Alan told him that when he gets four Ds in a row he can try sleeping with no diaper.  This week that happened!  And then two dry, diaper-free nights followed!  Yesterday Alan promised Lex a trip to the playground today if he had another dry night.  This morning Lex was dry but the weather outside was most certainly not.  Somehow, in Lex’s mind, that reward trip to the playground morphed into a trip to the “ice cream store” (the village store) and then when Alan woke up the plan became lunch at Friendly’s with ice cream to follow.  I suggested a trip to the science museum afterwards to burn off the ice cream!  The boys went out and had a great time!  Eve wanted to go, but Lex decided this was his special treat (which was fine because she really needed a nap anyway).  She was sad to see them go.  Here’s  a little video.  Sorry again for the sideways.

Saying goodbye

Eve watching the boys drive away. She decided she need to wear Lex's hat and mittens to wave goodbye :)

We had fun, somewhat, at home without them.  I was pretty tired so we ended up cuddling in the big bed and taking a nap together.  Morning sickness and exhaustion both hit this week and I’ve been happily napping with the kids each day.  I love naptime!  I woke up and exercised and Eve woke up an hour later in tears because I wasn’t in bed with her anymore.  Oops!  A few cuddles later she was fine.

Anyway, back to Lex… done with diapers?  I’ll keep you posted!  (and I’m sure I’m ruining it just by writing this!)