Weekend Update (on Thursday!)

Yes, it has taken me awhile to get to my weekend update. Alan is working late on that darn mudroom tonight so I’m going to squeeze in a blog post about last weekend before next weekend arrives before we know it!

(I have to go back through the pictures on my camera just to remember back to the weekend!)

Saturday started with an early morning trip to King Arthur Flour. Grampy Don’s friend Pat had never been and I couldn’t let her get so close and not actually visit the new KAF store! She is a proper southern baker and besides, everyone should visit KAF whenever they can! So we were there at 8am on Saturday morning. The kids came along. We watched the bakers baking bread, we had delicious pastries for breakfast, and then the kids colored in the awesome kid corner while Pat and I browsed. A lovely start to the day.

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Time to bake the bread, with an audience!

While we were enjoying our morning, Alan and his dad were getting the camper packed up and hooked up and ready to roll! I had planned to say a fine farewell, with photos and all, but it took them awhile to pack up and we had birthday parties to attend to, so it ended up being a quick goodbye and I snapped a farewell camper shot on my way out the door.

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Farewell camper! Safe travels. Just imagine two lovely people standing in front of the truck waving goodbye. That was the image I had in my head, but the timing just didn’t work out.

The rain was kind enough to hold off for our first birthday party – an active party at the skateboard park! I, of course, completely spaced it and forgot to bring the kids bikes and helmets. We were half hour late for the party too. (I feel like I’ve been running fast and late for weeks now!) The kids had fun running around anyway and Lex happily borrowed a scooter. I really need to get them back here sometime with their bikes. It would be a blast!

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Lex running. Somehow I managed to not take a single picture of him on the scooter. He loved it!

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Eve took a short turn with it as well.

Then it was time for pizza, presents, cake, and playing!

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A skateboard cake for a skate park party! Check out the cool goody bags too! Clever mama!

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Pizza! The birthday boy wore his helmet for the entire party. :)

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We were all waiting for the pizza to come back up here! The boys, however, loved it and never wanted to stop!

presents

Lex and Eve waited patiently through the entire present opening part. They wanted their gift to be last, which meant they were the last kids still paying attention. We went shopping on Friday for three birthday presents (two this week and one next week) and the kids did a great job wrapping them Saturday morning. I didn’t take pictures of their awesome, clever wrappings because we were running late. You can get a tiny peek at Eve’s decorating in this picture.

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The kids played hide-and-seek for a long time. Here are Lex and Eve hiding from the birthday boy.

Unfortunately the rain came just as we were leaving this party. The next party, for one of Lex’s classmates, was supposed to be outside at a different playground but got moved indoors at the last minute due to rain. I decided to drop Eve off at home with Alan instead of bringing her to an indoor party for Lex’s friend. Outdoors at a playground seemed ok to bring a sibling, but I knew he had a tiny house and I wanted as few people in it as possible! It ended up being the complete opposite of the first party. Other than the fact that they had pizza again, from the same place! :)

This second party involved a lot of this:

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Standing in line for a long time to play a variation on Pin The Tail on the Donkey. The poor kids couldn’t even see the beginning of the line so they had no idea what was going on.

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Lex just wandered around a lot while the rest of the kids watched some Star Wars digital animated cartoon thing.

The rain let up briefly and we ventured across the street to the playground, but no sooner had we arrived then the skies opened and the downpour began again. On the way back I grabbed Lex and we left (after saying goodbye, of course!) They did a good job with what they had, but I couldn’t take returning to the house again! We headed home and crashed for the rest of the day.

Sunday came, bright and early. The sun was shining. Mid-morning our neighbor Charlie knocked on the door and asked if he could rake our leaves. I said sure! I asked if he was looking to earn some money (why else would a sane person want to rake our leaves?!?!) and he said no, he was just looking to rake some leaves. Children != sane.

When Lex saw Charlie out raking he quickly went out too. Eve followed suit. Soon we were all outside raking “the biggest leaf pile in the state!” Eve insisted we were.

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Raking leaves. This is just from one tree too, the other hasn’t started dropping yet!

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Where did the kids go?!

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There they are!

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They had fun hiding in the pile.

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Happy kids!

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Leaves!

lunch

It was 12:30 so I brought out some lunch for the hard workers.

All morning Eve kept insisting they were making the biggest leaf pile in the state. She asked if I would make them awards. I smiled and nodded. Yes, sometimes I just do that. But she persisted. Sometimes asking me if I had made them yet, just five minutes after the last time she asked, when I had been outside raking with them the entire time. When I went in to make lunch she followed me in to ask if I was making their awards yet. I finally relented and whipped up some blue ribbon awards while they ate lunch. She was thrilled. Sometimes it’s the little things in life.

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Awards

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This year’s winners of the “Biggest Leaf Pile in the State!” Congratulations team!

I have no more weekend pictures on the camera, so I assume we all just went to bed after lunch! :) Just kidding. What I failed to mention was that my parents were here too! They got here Saturday afternoon, after the birthday parties. They treated us to delicious take-out so I didn’t have to cook dinner. On Sunday afternoon they took the kids roller skating while Alan and I went to a movie! We all had a great afternoon!

That was our weekend. Tomorrow begins another busy one! I’ll see ya next Thursday! ;)

Halloween Craft

Another idea from Pinterest, with our own spin, of course. A crafty afternoon that started with making a Halloween decoration and ended with getting out all of last year’s homemade decorations. Now we have a lovely decorated Halloween home.

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My idea for a decoration was the white ghosty hands, like mine in the middle. The kids thought black with white crayon would be more scary. Eve’s handprints (just left of mine and far right) remind me of Badly Drawn Dog. :) Lex had the idea for the BOOs.

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Lex decided the ghosts should be haunting a pumpkin patch. It’s hard to see in the pictures, but there is a row of orange pumpkins on the bottom part, courtesy of Lex.

Then some decorating… and out came the hat and teeth from years past (I’m gonna be lazy and not link to years past though because it’s late and I’m tired).

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She can stick her tongue out even with fake teeth in her mouth!

Oh, actually our afternoon also included getting out the winter gear and sorting through it to see what we need. It sounds early, I know, but it is getting chilly on those bike/walk to school mornings!

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Trying on the winter gear.

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Eve decided to pretend the leaves were snow and went out to “play in the snow!”

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Lex wanted nothing to do with pretend snow, but he was happy to smile for me. That’s all I ever want. :)

Painting the big beautiful scenery

Every Monday after school we drive over to our local farm (one of many in this area!) and pick up our CSA share. Our farm happens to be situated high on a beautiful hill and has a great view (see here and here and here for more beautiful farm pictures). Two weeks ago Eve started talking about how she would love to bring paints and paint a beautiful picture. Lex loved the painting idea as well. Boring mommy suggested we take a few pictures with the camera and use them to paint at home. No dice, boring mommy! Last week they were both disappointed that I didn’t bring the paints and I reminded them that if they want to paint they need to bring the paints. This morning Eve woke up and almost immediately reminded me that it’s Monday and we need to pack the paints for our trip to the CSA. With my help she packed up a bag and put it in the car before school. I’m always running around on Mondays so if it didn’t get in the car early it probably wouldn’t get in at all!

When we got to the farm there were a few logistics to figure out, such as the fact that we don’t have portable easels (hardcover books from the car made acceptable stand-ins) and the ground was damp (turns out little kids don’t care about that!). So we climbed as high was we could, right by the wonderful swings, and settled in with the watercolors.

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Settling in, getting comfy, time for painting.

the view

The view is pretty amazing.

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I entertained myself by playing with camera settings (and checking email, FB, blogs, etc.) I like this setting. The colors look more vivid. Someday I’m going to have an awesome camera and know all about such things.

I went back down to the barn, collected my CSA goodies, picked some herbs and flowers, loaded the car, then went back up to wait with them.

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My view from the car. Do you see the kids up there? :)

After a few minute I was bored (I have the patience of a gnat!) but they were so calm and peaceful. Diligently working on their pictures. Discussing what they saw and how to draw it. Lex made outlines and then filled in. Eve painted with a broad brush (literally!) and was a bit abstract. Lex threw around words like “outlining” and “layering” that he learned in art class and tried to comment on the differences in their painting techniques. “Mine is more detailed and yours has more colors,” he said. She took every comment as a critique (she can be touchy like that sometimes) so I jumped in and explained that everyone has a different style and no style is better or worse than any other. We talked about different artists and styles. My knowledge in that area is just a barely-there wisp, but I was able to bring up books we have with different styles of illustrations and I think the point was adequately made. I may find a few art books in the library to further our discussions. I considered painting with them, but we didn’t have an extra book handy and I didn’t want to sit on the wet ground.

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Eve gestures to the sweeping landscape as her verbal stories unfold.

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Hard at work.

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Big beautiful scenery!

more painting

Like I said, I amused myself by taking pictures. Now you have to look at them!

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I did a little swinging too. :)

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Lex’s finished piece. He is standing in front of the view he painted, with the barn in the lower right corner of the picture and his painting.

Eve

Eve’s pieces are more abstract and she included everything she saw at any point. As usual, I wish I could include her stories with these posts, but of course I never could so you’ll just have to enjoy the pictures and imagine the stories.

I waited patiently and after an hour and a half we packed up. Lex had finished one and Eve had done one and nearly completed her second. I rushed her a bit at the end (I felt guilty but really we had been there so long already and I was cold and bored!). They took them into the barn and proudly showed Chuck, the farmer/owner. He and everyone else in the barn oohed and aahed appropriately. :)

Then home we went, wet works of art drying in the back of the car. Happy family.

Craftiness

(I just noticed that it’s October 5th and I’m just now creating an October photos folder, and I only have 15 pictures to put in it, four of which aren’t even for me. I’m slacking here! ;) )

I had a realization recently (again) that our afternoons go more smoothly when I have something planned. Not necessarily an outing, but a plan. Some days we go out but many days we all want to be home. I’ve started trying to be a bit more proactive, or intentional as the mommy-blog world talks about, with my afternoons. As a result of this decision, we’ve done several fun craft projects recently.

Family Tree
I found this idea from a blog I read, written by a local mom. It’s fun to see her pictures and sometimes recognize where they were taken. She has lots of fun little kid ideas. I modified the project, of course. For our afternoon I got out big sheets of paper and all of our stamps and ink. We haven’t used the stamps in quite awhile. The kids were super excited to come home and find this project setup.

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Everyone loves stamping.

While they stamped away I drew a tree branch on my piece of paper.

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My bare branch. I am always so nervous to create. I marvel at how fast and easy the kids put ink to paper, while I hem and haw and hesitate, fearing it might come out different from what I see in my head.

Then I asked them to use green ink and make fingerprint “leaves” all over the branches.

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Little green finger print leaves.

lex finger printing

Lex wanted to put his whole hand down, but I had to stop him. The ink isn’t washable (they had colorful fingers for awhile!) and I really wanted my project to turn be nice. :)

Then I had them each pick a color and put one thumb print on the big branch. The idea being to make little birdies sitting on the branch. One for each of us. I had Alan do his thumbprint when he got home from work.

After awhile Lex and I moved on, but Eve persisted with the stamping, turning out several sheets that look a lot like this one. All full of detailed, intricate stories.

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She has no hesitation in creating!

The next day I got out the paints and paint markers and we did more creating.

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This is Eve’s painting. A bunny in a field with white flowers.

While they painted and thought and deliberated on how to finish my Family Tree. How to make it look “right.” I didn’t have right size googly eyes, like the sample I was following, and we didn’t do the paint smudge and I was afraid to do anything for fear of wrecking it. Finally I put pen to paper and finished it, putting the sample out of my mind and coming up with a few idea of my own. I was super excited about how it came out!

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Our Family Tree!

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Perfect, right? Wrong!

The kids were oohing and aahing as I showed them the finished product. Then Eve made a comment about her little blue bird and Lex made a comment about his big blue bird and I suppressed a bit of very strong language as I realized I had written the names wrong!!! ARGH!

More heming and hawing. I pointed out the mistake to the kids, who would have noticed momentarily anyway, and told them how frustrated I was about the mistake. They were both so sweet and kind and came up with lots of idea. I tried one fix that didn’t work then I tried Lex’s suggestion of just making the branch bigger. That worked. If you look really close you can see the pen names through the branch, but only if you know to look for them….. hmm… disregard that last sentence and take a look at my finished PERFECT Family Tree!

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Finished! The first step to my downstairs bathroom remodeling. :) (I know decorating the walls should be the final step to a remodeling project, but I do things a bit differently over here.)

Then the kids finished their paintings.

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Lex made a deep sea picture. I think I like the lantern fish best. :)

When we were all done Eve took the job of cleaning up the paint. It took her almost an hour. Can you guess why? :)

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Eve “cleaning” the paints. Seriously though, when she was done things were pretty clean!

I have to go get the kids off the bus now. I’ll save my other recent craft project, a bit of Halloween fun, for anther post!

No more reading at the table

A week or two ago, on a whim, I declared a “no reading at the table” rule. For those of you who know my house, this is a big change. A big change for Lex and I anyway. He was not happy. I was a little uncertain in my declaration, but I wanted to give it a try. Guess what? It has been a stellar success! (So far.)

I made the rule because he grabs a book for every meal and completely tunes out the world. He eats very messily, doesn’t pay attention to what he’s doing, doesn’t pay attention to us, and then sits at the table, completely spaced out, and reads until someone takes the book away. Two weeks ago he started coming home with a homework assignment to read for 20 minutes a night and write two sentences. I figured this would be a piece of cake for him but he continually insists that he doesn’t remember what he reads. That was the final straw. Making a mess, spacing out, and not even remembering? Not worth it!

Now he doesn’t read nearly as much, but he has better table manners and participates in the discussion and is generally a much more pleasant person to dine with. Yay!

The downside, for me, is that I also like to read at the table! Sometimes I sneak it in when no one is around, but I’m trying to break myself of the habit as well. I find myself much more attentive to the kids and participating more in the conversation, particularly with Eve, when I don’t have a magazine in front of me taking up 80% of my attention. My magazine pile is suffering, but the rest of us are doing fine! :)