Eve came down from nap today and told me that she was singing God songs to puppy. After nap she often likes to hang out in her room for a bit, on the days I don’t have to wake her up to rush out the door! She sat on the floor and asked if I wanted her to sing to me. Heck yeah! So she sang, “The Lord can hear the cries of the poor.” That’s the only line she knows so she sang it a few times before announcing, “That’s from Mema’s church!!” :) I love her singing voice. Maybe I need to get her to church more often.
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Painting the bookshelf
After much delay we finally, FINALLY got around to painting the bookshelf. But “we” I mostly mean “me” because the kids have been dying to do it almost every day, but it took me awhile to gather the materials and motivation. I mostly wanted to do it while Lex was at school and Eve was napping, but it didn’t quite work out that way. In hindsight I’m glad it didn’t! We all had a really fun time and the kids did a super good job of listening and being careful. Hopefully it will dry tonight and we can do another coat (or two, I didn’t use primer) tomorrow. Maybe by next week it will actually have books on it :)
Cheesy Cauliflower Casserole
For those of you who think I do nothing but bake all day, here is a healthier recipe. I rejoined Weight Watchers this week so the baking has been put on hold for awhile (but with the holidays so near I don’t think it will be too long!) This recipe is adapted from a WW magazine. I’ve made it a few times and I think it is yummy. Alan mostly agrees, though I think he’d take something full-fat and loaded with chicken over this :)
Cheesy Cauliflower Casserole
1 c. shredded Swiss cheese (divided in half)
1/4 c. grated Parmesan
6 c. steamed cauliflower florets
3 Tbsp flour
1/4 tsp salt
1/8 tsp cayenne
1 clove of garlic, minced
1 1/2 c. fat-free half-and-half
3 Tbsp chopped parsley (I used the freeze dried variety)
Mix 1/2 cup of Swiss cheese with the Parmesan and set aside.
Put the steamed cauliflower into a 2qt baking dish.
Heat the half-and-half over a low heat, add flour, salt, cayenne, and garlic. Cook until it thickens, whisking frequently, about 4 minutes. Add the other 1/2 cup of Swiss cheese and parsley.
Pour over the cauliflower and top with mixed cheeses.
Broil 3-5 minutes, until golden brown on top.
3 POINTS per 1 cup serving. Variations: use low-fat Swiss cheese to reduce points to 2 per 1 cup serving. The original recipe also said to added 3 oz. Canadian bacon strips at the end with the cheese and parsley. I skipped that step, obviously. It will also increase the points value.
PS. Sorry no fancy photo! I didn’t think about posting the recipe until after the leftovers were tucked nicely (and messily!) away in the fridge.
Back in the water!
The kids were thrilled today to be back in the pool! We started lessons again today after taking the summer off to swim in outdoor water.

Lex in the pool! After a seriously painful case of red eyes last year, Lex decided to brave the goggles this time around. On the way back to the car he said "I think the goggles did a good job! My eyes feel fine."

Eve in the pool! Rocking the pink goggles! :) The boy on the left is also in her preschool class. That was a fun surprise.
I was a little bummed, again, by the scheduling situation. Two sessions ago (probably a year or so ago by now), Eve’s swim teacher said she was progressing rapidly and ready to move up a level. So I signed her up for the next level when we renewed. She was enrolled in the same class as Lex. They were super excited about it, but when we got to the first lesson we were told that there wasn’t enough room in his class, so they put her back in the preschool class again. She loves that teacher and was happy enough, but definitely not challenged. I was annoyed. This time they were offering a “preschool” class for newbies to the water and a “preschool 1” class to 3-4yr olds who were comfortable in the water. I signed Eve up for “preschool 1” of course, but when we got there today we found out that they didn’t have enough enrolled for both classes, so they combined them! Ugh! This time I was much more forward with the instructor (who, by the way, is awesome!) I told her that I felt the last session was a waste of money for Eve and I was frustrated by that. She said “Let’s see what the mix is in this class.” Turns out the “mix” was Eve and another somewhat confident kid, then a bunch of kids afraid of the water. Ugh. After the lesson ended her instructor went over to the lesson coordinator and then came to me and said “Eve definitely needs to be moved up!” She said the coordinator was going to see who should could move around to make room in Lex’s class for Eve.
We swam and played for awhile and on the way out I stopped to chat with the coordinator to offer her some flexibility in lesson times. Turns out she was already working on it. She had discussed with another kid and his mom about moving him up a level to make a spot for Eve. So, as it stands now, Eve and Lex will be in class together for the remaining 5 weeks. Yay!! I hope, hope, hope nothing changes when we get back next week. If she is back in the preschool class I think I’m going to ask for my money back and un-enroll her, but I hope it doesn’t come to that. They are once again very excited to be in class together :)
Pictures from today
A morning hug. While they were hugging Lex said, “Mom, why don’t you take a picture of us.” I JUMPED at that offer! :)

Have I mentioned lately that Eve is really getting into writing? I love it :) She requested a little help with the spelling, but we just make the sounds for each letter and then she writes them. Even Lex coaches/helps her this way. It's great. She's so smart!

I got tired of Lex's foam-noodle structure so today we stuck it in water and helped it disolve. The kids thought it was amazing.
Happy November!!! A wonderful month ;)
Halloween 2010 – Part 2
Halloween Day. Finally :) But first, one more picture from last night.
This morning was nice and quiet. I didn’t get the paper read, but I did get to sleep until 8am! That’s a good trade, in my opinion! :) Then we hung out, played outside for awhile with the neighbors, had lunch and naps. Then off to the local mall for trick-or-treating. We met another family there. Superman is Lex’s friend from school. They are so cute together :)

This is just a cool picture, lighting wise. She is wearing a dinosaur mask that Lex got from the birthday party yesterday.

Superheros ready to fight crime and get candy. (I'm pretty sure Lex only put on his costume because his friend was waiting for him. Yay for friends!)

This bowl was great. The hand moved when you reached in for candy. Lex watched his friend get some candy, then Eve, then a few other kids, then Lex decided he didn't want any of that candy anyway :)

I tried over and over to get a good picture of the two of them, and this was all I got. Kind of a good picture. They look serious anyway!

We tried to get a group shot. Right at the end we managed to get the four of them together, but only for the briefest of seconds. The lady bug is Superman's baby sister. They came over for a playdate last week and the kids all loved her. :)
Back to the house for awhile, had some dinner, then redressed for some chilly evening trick-or-treating. Mandy and Rachel and Grampy Don came along, while Alan stayed home scaring children who stopped at our house. This year we did our whole street AND a few houses on another street. A first for us! The kids were thrilled and lucky to have the Aunties along (Mandy and Rachel, can I call you the Aunties? :) ) When their gallon jugs got full and heavy from candy, Mandy and Rachel volunteered to carry them. It was a really fun night.
Halloween 2010 – Part 1
I realize it isn’t even Halloween yet, but somehow this day of candy gorging seems to have turned into almost a week for us! Starting with Eve’s preschool costume parade on Thursday. Last night we went to a Halloween party at Alan’s office. Lex refused to dress up (reserving his costume for the ACTUAL Halloween event!), but Eve and I donned our gear for the party.

Towards the end of the party Lex, Eve, and Mr. Incredible spent some time (ok, a lot of time!) running the halls and yelling, having a blast.
This morning we all enjoyed NOT rushing out of the house at 7am as we have done the past few days. Instead we had a leisurely morning and then made our way to the Fright River Flyer for a haunted train ride with Gammy and Popcube. It was chilly and very much NOT haunted, but we all had fun anyway.

The train made a weird unexpected (to me) stop at a farm stand where the kids were all given mini pumpkins. I think it was more so the grownups would all buy coffee and cookies (we did).

She looks quite concerned while reading this train brochure. Perhaps because she can't read? Or maybe because the brocure is upside down?! :)
The train trip ended about an hour later than expected, which left us rushing home for a quick lunch and then off to a birthday party. Eve and Alan stayed home while Lex and I went to his friend’s birthday party. I was worried because he was so tired and barely ate lunch, but he had a BLAST! He cried only once, when I was told that parents can drop off their kids and leave. His eyes welled up and he asked me please, please not to leave him alone. So I stayed. Luckily I’m friends with the family so it was nice to stay and chat with them anyway.

It's hard to get good pictures in this place! Here he is at the top of the mountain, about to toss a beanbag into that "donut" behind the line of kids!

When they were all done with gymnastics, Lex looked up at me in the balcony and yelled "Mom, it's time for cake!" Like he endured all that fun activity just to get cake :) Here he is now, enjoying his dinosaur cupcake.
After the party and Eve’s nap, we spent the rest of the evening coloring at the table. Lex said he needed some relaxing time :) They had a giant snack around 4:45 and skipped dinner.
Tomorrow we will chill in the morning. I might even read the paper!! :) Then off to the mall (hehe… or what passes for a mall around here!) for trick-or-treating with the Johnson family and one of Lex’s classmates. Hello candy!
Priorities
I seriously need to make a grocery list and meal plans for the week, but the house is quiet and I’m going to blog instead. I’ll make the list later. Who needs sleep, right?!
As you may or may not know, I have been participating in a “Lose Big” program at a local gym. This week was the last week and while I did not actually lose big (I did lose a few pounds though, just not “big”!), it has been a lot of fun. The program consisted of twice weekly meetings, one being a lecture of sorts and the other being a circuit workout. In general I found the workouts to be much more useful than the lectures, but both were good. At the final lecture yesterday the trainer was reviewing what we had learned (or were supposed to have learned!) over the course of the six week program. At one point we were discussing obstacles and I raised my hand and said I have trouble balancing priorities. I know it’s important to take care of myself, but when that happens at the expense of too many other things, well then I loose focus. Not uncommon, I’m sure. The trainer mentioned that she also has two small kids (smaller than mine actually!) and fully understands, but “they know that if I don’t get to exercise every day then I am a cranky mommy!” That got me thinking… I want to exercise and lose weight so I can feel better about my body, but I’m finding that often when I DO exercise every day I become a cranky mommy. Why? Because exercise takes a lot of time. Time that otherwise would be spent cleaning the house, or being with the kids, or completing projects, or cooking, or grocery shopping, or or or… (or blogging, of course!)
I find that I ebb and flow in the “take care of me” department. I do prefer to weigh less, I do like to exercise, but after doing that for awhile I get frustrated with the messy house, cranky kids, and everything else that seems to slip through the cracks when I devote time to daily exercise. There just isn’t enough time in the day! So her comment made me think that perhaps exercise really ISN’T a priority in my life. Is that horrible to say?!?! I do need to exercise regularly, but perhaps not for so long and not every day. More importantly, I realized that I when I have a better handle on life I feel much, MUCH better, regardless of exercise. I also believe that when I am more in control of my surroundings I am better able to manage my food intake and therefore feel better all around… which often leads to more time to exercise. :) When my surroundings feel out of control then my eating quickly follows, which is counter-intuitive because often I think my eating is the one thing I SHOULD be able to control, but alas it spirals out of control along with everything else. Control issues, maybe… but that’s for another post!
It’s interesting thinking about, and trying to truly own, your priorities in life.
He melts my heart
“You know what is warmer than the shower?” said Lex this evening, while standing in the shower. “What?” I asked and he replied with “Your hugs.” Sometimes words can melt your heart.
Let the sugar parade begin…
Eve’s class did a Halloween parade at school today. The class is held at a high school so they went trick-or-treating around the school. I thought it was cute idea and figured she would come home with a few pieces of candy, but she got a ton! I was shocked! She got more candy on this parade then she got trick-or-treating last year… and both kids shared that! It occurred to me that her pumpkin is already half full (like the “pumpkins” we made for trick-or-treating?) and she will still be getting candy at Alan’s office party tomorrow, on the haunted train ride on Saturday, and THEN trick-or-treating on Sunday! Oof!























