So scary, and other stuff

I opened the skylights upstairs this
afternoon because it was so hot. We don’t open them often since
there are no screens, but I did today. Later, Alan took Lex up
for a bath. After his bath Lex ran into his room, “naked boy,”
he loves it. Alan took a minute longer in the bathroom then
went into Lex’s room, and found him standing on the back rail
of the changing table, face and arm out the skylight, trying to
climb up the wall. If Lex had thought to climb on the nearby
dresser we could have had a serious accident! Alan called for
me to come see (standing right next to Lex, of course, to keep
him safe). It was scary. Don’t think I’m opening that window
again! Or maybe we need to rearrange the furniture so he can’t
reach the skylight…

I know it’s been a
while here. I’ve been busy and oh so tired. Eve and Lex both
have lingering colds. She sleeps a lot and he cries a lot.
Luckily they don’t both cry a lot! There is always so much to
be done so I don’t end up sleeping as much as I probably
should.

We made our first attempt at
potty training this past weekend. It was ok, but not great. I
don’t think Lex is really ready for it yet, but I don’t think I
can deal with six more months of kicking and tantrums every
time I try to change his diaper. I’m trying to find a Love and
Logic way to handle it, but haven’t found anything yet, and I
find myself getting frustrated quickly when I’m tired, he’s
been crying all day, and now he’s kicking me and grabbing for a
poopy diaper. It’s hard to think clearly in situations like
that :) But we will survive. Still debating about how to handle
the potty training. Some friends recommended doing it outside,
which would be cool, but a little weird in our new
neighborhood. We did a “naked day” and Lex loved it, though I
don’t think he liked the constant attention as much. Alan and I
took turns watching him like a hawk in the hopes of preventing
“accidents” on the carpet. He used the potty a few times, but
used the carpet as well. Besides the vigilant watching, the
other hard part was that we couldn’t really do anything else.
Can’t do housework or anything and watch him close enough. It
was such a beautiful day too. “Naked day” ended up being only
half a day because when he woke up from his nap he asked to go
out outside “go outside, want to play with Jack” and it was so
nice and Alan and I really wanted to go outside as well. So
that was the end of potty training.

Anyway, along the lines of sleep, I should probably go
back to bed now. I’ll be up again soon enough.

Eve’s one month appointment

We went in for Eve’s one month check up
today. She’s doing just fine (no surprises there) and weighed
in at 11lbs (that was a surprise!) and 22 inches. I was shocked
by the 11lbs, but when I went back and looked I saw that Lex
was 10lbs 8oz at his one month check up, so I guess 11lbs isn’t
so big. The doctor said she looks great though and to keep up
the good work :)

Gardening with Mamoo

Lex has taken to calling me “mamoo” or
“moomoo” or “memoo”. He’s very silly and only two (almost) so I
don’t get too offended :)

Today Lex and
I started a garden. Eve slept peacefully nearby. We dug a
rectangle (about 3′ x 6′) and turned over the earth and all
that good stuff. It ended up looking a bit like a fresh grave
:) Then we picked up Alan from work and popped over to our
local garden nursery to buy some Moo Doo (organic compost, the
people there said it was very good for gardening). Tomorrow Lex
and I will spread it out and maybe this weekend we’ll put some
seeds in the ground. We have carrots, green beans, peas,
cucumbers, and tomatoes (from seedlings, not seeds). I’m new to
gardening, so wish me luck!

Wild man!

Lex was such a wild man yesterday. Happy
as can be, but also happy to be asserting his independence,
ignoring me as much as possible, and running around like a
banshee. I don’t know if he’s getting too much
activity/stimulation these days or not enough or what, but he
drove me crazy! I was so happy when Alan came home :)

To his credit, Lex was an angel all morning
when we went grocery shopping. He does like grocery shopping,
and unloading and putting away the groceries. It was a big day
in the diaper department too. Eve moved up to size one diapers
and I bought Lex his first Pull-Ups. He has been fighting me on
the changing table lately, kicking, crying, resisting changes
whenever possible, etc. I decided now might be the time to get
serious about potty training… or else get some body armor to
protect me from those flailing legs! He is a strong boy! Now
that the weather is getting warmer we can loose the onsies and
teach him how to sit on the potty by himself. I don’t have a
solid plan for this just yet, but I’ll figure it out :) That’s
what parenting is all about, right?

Happy one month birthday to Eve and happy May to
all!!

Some pictures

Not much to say at the moment. Had a good
weekend. Visited Jim & Julie. Trip down was great, trip
back took awhile because Eve decided she wanted to nurse every
hour! Good times were had by all though. We have her 1 month
appointment this week. I’ll let you know how that goes. Anyway,
really just wanted to post a few photos here.

Aunt Betty sent a big box of presents for Eve
and Lex. Not only were the presents great, but Lex sat at the
dinner table and quietly opened presents and read his new books
while Alan and I ate. It was great. I even got to read the
whole newspaper the next morning because he wanted to sit at
the table and read the new books again. Here he is in a
snowsuit they sent for Eve. The tag says 12mo, but I think it’s
pretty big for that (seeing as it fits Lex just fine!) He
picked it up and said “want to put snowsuit on and go outside.”
:)

Here is Eve in her little bow from Joyce. So
cute.

Jim & Julie bought a bocce ball set for
their backyard, so Alan and Jim play a round. Lex tried to play
too.

Eve slept in my arm as Julie and I discussed
gardening.

Bedtime stories with Jim. He liked this book and
understood it on a whole different level than Alan and I ever
did. I guess we’re not really smart enough for Baby Einstein.
:)

Crying

When Eve was first born Lex had real
trouble dealing with the crying. Whenever she cried he would
kind of freak out and start throwing things or crying himself.
I kept explaining that Eve can’t use words yet and we made a
game out of guessing why she was crying. It seems to have
worked. Lately whenever she cries Lex says “Eve is crying” and
goes over to her and asks “Why are you crying Eve?” It’s very
cute. I sometimes have to prevent him from laying across her
while asking, but he means well. :) I’m so happy about this
development because when she cried and then he cried I think
they just spurred each other on and gave me a real headache!
Now her crying is much more manageable.

We were at story time today and I was talking with a guy
who just had his second baby. He said his daughter (a few weeks
older than Lex) wasn’t handling it well and really didn’t like
sharing mommy. She is a very cute girl. Towards the end of
story time Eve started crying and this little girl started
giving me the evil eye. I think she was thinking “I came here
to get away from crying babies!!” Her dad kept trying to show
her Eve and explain that all babies cry, but she wanted no part
of it. I told her dad it would probably get better. Her baby
brother is just 8 days old, so hopefully within the next few
weeks she starts to adjust.

Clean babies

We did more yard work today and Alan
decided to take a shower this evening, so we decided to throw
the kids in the shower with him (one at a time, of course),
instead of baths. Lex loves the shower! Eve was pretty
fascinated too. We started showering Lex around 4wks because it
was so much easier than the baby bath and he liked it much
better. We may take the same route with Eve too, we’ll see. Lex
is actually sick again today. He woke up from his nap with a
fever of 103. I don’t know what’s going on with him. It seems
to be ever Sunday lately. If he were in school I’d get
suspicious :) We’ll see how he feels tomorrow and may end up at
the doctor. Or he may wake up just fine, who knows.

Here is a little movie of the two of them. I
think Lex likes his little sister. I think she likes sleeping
on the floor :)
[youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZCsAqtiqIQk]

Yard work

Today was a beautiful day! We spent the morning
at our local hardware store stocking up on yard work stuff
(wheelbarrow, rakes, etc.) and the afternoon working outside.
We have soooo many leaves and sticks in our yard. Last fall I
spent some time racking up the leaves and dragging them across
the street on a tarp. Our neighbor is nice enough to let us
toss the yard waste into the ravine behind their house. The
tarp method took forever! The wheelbarrow method today went so
much faster! Of course, having Alan outside helped too :) Lex
took the world’s longest nap, about three and a half hours, and
Eve napped in the stroller for awhile, nursed, then napped in
the belly pack. Rough life for the kiddies, huh? :)

By the end of the afternoon we had about 1/4
of the yard done, but maybe closer to 1/3 of the total work
(the leaves aren’t evenly dispersed on the lawn). We are
planning to spend most of tomorrow outside as well (assuming
good weather) and hopefully we’ll get all of the leaves and
sticks cleared away. Then maybe we’ll get some grass growing!
We have great flower gardens that the previous owners planted.
I’ve been raking them out and finding lots of little buds
peeking through the dirt. I can’t wait to see what grows
:)

I’m also going to try a small veggie
garden this year, so we bought a shovel and trowel and the like
(expensive day at the hardware store!) Once we get the yard
raked up I’m going to start digging a square (over the next few
weeks) and plant some stuff in May. We’ll see how it goes. I’m
not much of a gardener, but I’d like to be :) I have fond
memories of my mom’s veggie garden when I was growing up. I’d
like to share those with Lex and Eve as well.