A pleasure to have in class

That was the message we received at both parent/teacher conferences today. The kids are happy, well adjusted children. Eve’s teacher wrote “Eve appears to be happy, content and confident.” and “She is kind to all.” Lex’s teacher said he is a fun and funny kid who knows how to have fun and knows how to stop when asked. She also said that he is all kid, not growing up too fast like many of his classmates. As an example, she said that the “boyfriend/girlfriend” thing has been going around and kids were even talking about kissing. One day she spoke with the class about it and said no, no, no. There will be no boyfriends, no girlfriends, no kissing. Lex raised his hand and nervously asked if it was ok if he kissed his family, because he loves his family. She said he really seemed concerned that she was going to say no :) I think we’re doing a good job raising these kids!

Speaking of kissing, we were at the aquatic center with one of Lex’s classmates the other day and the three kids were swimming around the current pool. At one point this little boy said to Eve, “If you can catch me, you can kiss me!” and he swam off. She looked at him, looked at me, shrugged, and kept swimming. I tried not to burst out laughing!

Incredible Equations

Lex’s class does an activity they call Incredible Equations each morning. The kids have to think of equations that equal the date. For example, on December 5th, they could say 4+1. That’s an example most 1st graders would say. Lex prefers more complex equations, often involving multiplication and division. When I asked him if he came up with an equation today he said his was 10×2+4×2=28. (Alan is reading over my shoulder and told me there’s no need to type the parentheses because Lex knows about order of operations as of last week.)

I can’t wait for his parent teacher conference next week!

A cold bike ride!

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Today was Walk/Ride To School day.  Close by kids walk or ride their bikes and the busses drop other kids off at the end of the mile long bike path between the village and the school.  Kids usually enjoy it.  It’s great exercise for them and a great way to get some morning energy out before class starts.  We’ve missed it every week this school year so far.  This morning we had the right combination of remembering, enough time, and interest.  Three important factors.  Alan even stayed home with Eve so that we could make it happen.  Turns out it was COLD outside!  It was about 31° when we left.  Lex and I made it about one house down the road before turning around to come back and dig some gloves out of storage.  I guess I should bring the whole box of winter gear down soon :(    Anyway, we rode and walked to school because Lex kept getting too tired to pedal anymore.  Poor boy.  We made it, and we were only about five minutes late!  I left him with bright red cheeks and a runny nose.  It was fun, but this might be our one Walk/Ride To School day until spring.

All about Lex (or why I love Fridays)

Look at this awesome book Lex made at school this week. I wasn’t sure of the best way to show it, but hopefully you can see the details here. Click on the image and it will get bigger. I LOVE it.

Lex's book

I love that he drew himself as a smiling sunshine. I love that he likes playing games with mom. We are lying on our bellies playing Trouble. Notice that he started drawing me standing up then erased it when he remembered that we usually lay down when we play that game. He even drew a house around us. I love that he wants to be an astronaut when he grows up. He even drew the safety line. I love that he drew Eve with big curly hair and that he drew me taller than Alan. When we asked him why he said Alan was bending down. I love that his favorite food is oatmeal. We share the same breakfast every morning. I love that he wrote his name down his arm. I just love this little book. It makes me smile :)

This is a dorky thing to say, but I really look forward to Fridays during the school year. For the obvious reasons, of course, such as the impending weekend,but more so because of the folders of papers that come home from school Friday afternoons. I love the little notes home from the teacher about what they did this week and what to expect next week. I like seeing all the projects and worksheets they do. Sometimes they are many and boring (Lex brought home a slew of color recognition worksheets this week. Really? In 1st grade?) but other times you get a beautiful painting from art class, or a fun book like the one above. This week we were supposed to get information about reading groups in Lex’s class. They did reading assessments this past week and his teacher said she would send home group info on Friday. I was disappointed to finding nothing about it in his folder. Next Friday he won’t be in school so I’m going to have to wait two whole weeks to learn more! The other disappointment in his folder was the photo order sheet. Class photos will be taken next week when we are away. We can do make-up photos in October, but he won’t be in the class picture this year. Bummer, I know!

Good thing this adorable book came home to make up for the downers. I’ll just keep reading his All About Me book and smile every time. :)

Eve’s first day of Pre-K

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Lex decided today would be a good day for a
"first day of school" photo. OK!

This morning went MUCH better than yesterday. Both kids were happy in the morning and eager to go to school. Eve had her backpack packed and ready as we headed to Lex’s school. She was disappointed to find out we had to go back to our house for the morning. She wanted to head right to school :)

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Guess where they are heading... right for the puddle, of course!

 

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I love this girl!

Eve and I spent the morning at home, exercising, reading, playing Starfall, eating lunch, etc. Good times. Then back out in the rain to bring her to school. In her classroom I asked if she wanted me to stick around for a few minutes and she said, “Nope, you can go!” At least she gave me hugs and kisses before kicking me out. :)

 

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Eve at her school.

 

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Eve's best friend is in morning Pre-K and Eve is in the afternoon session, but we discovered they can leave things for each other in their cubbies. Eve colored a picture so her friend will have a surprise when she gets to school tomorrow.

 

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I left her in the sandbox, of course. Happily playing.

Now I have a little less than two hours to tackle a MOUNTAIN of things that have been building up and slowly creeping out of control. So what do I do first? Hot tea and a blog post, with a little FB and blog reading tucked in as well. It’s no wonder I don’t get much done. Gheesh.

Seriously though, I’m super proud of my kids. They are both growing up so fast and becoming such sweet, happy individuals. Lex’s teacher told me he had a great day and she was impressed with how honest (her word) he was. Apparently during his crying yesterday he kept saying, “I just miss my mom. I’ll be ok soon, but now I just miss my mom.” I think she was surprised by how articulate he is. He gave her a big hello this morning and she seemed happy to see him. Eve is comfortable and confident in her new classroom. What more can a mother ask for?!

PS. Did you notice my sidebar came back? I knew it would. Vacation must be over for it too! —>

First day of school – first grade

The big day finally arrived. Lex slept late (bugger!) and we had to wake him up. I made pancakes for breakfast, not to celebrate but because we were out of most everything else! He fussed a bit about going and tried to hide under the table, but when I got him to talk to me he decided it would be best to leave sooner rather than later so we could arrive a bit early and he could be one of the first ones in the room. I think it’s easier for a kid like him to see the kids trickle in as opposed to having to walk into a full classroom. Unfortunately it seems everyone else had the same idea! The parking lot was packed and Lex immediately got apprehensive again. He dragged his feet into the building, but luckily for me didn’t put up a physical fight. I had to pull him along when we got into the building and he suddenly “forgot” where his classroom was. Good thing he showed it to me over the summer! When we got to the room it was pretty full. He immediately started crying. Poor boy. His best buddy (so sweet!) ran over and said, “Hey brother, welcome back!!” and tried to pull him into the classroom. Lex fell (prat fall really) and wailed louder that he got hurt. His poor friend had huge eyes and felt awful. I found myself trying to reassure both of them. Then a sweet little girl came over and gave Lex a big hug. Lex cried some more and hid under the cubbies. I felt so bad for him. I got his stuff put away and gave him big hugs and left. His teacher took my sobbing son and walked him back into the classroom, while I walked my sobbing self down the hall. Again I was thankful that he did not put up a physical fight.

Eve and I spent the morning grocery shopping. She was so excited for school that she packed her backpack (spare clothes “just in case,” a water bottle “in case I get thirsty” and a snack) and carried it around the grocery store. Then we hit the library quickly, then home for unloading, lunch, a few stories, and back in the car headed to her open house. She starts school tomorrow but today they had an hour to meet the teacher, see the classroom, and meet their classmates. Easy peasy for Evie. She had fun. She was very tired by the end though. Then back in the car to pick up Lex and head home.

Back at Lex’s school he was all smiles at pick-up. He said he had a great day, “except for the very beginning,” and liked gym class best. I guess Tuesday’s are gym days. Good to know. So far he’s planning on going back again tomorrow! :)

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I wasn't about to attempt photography today, but here is a picture of him from last week, smiling with his new backpack.

 

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Eve got a new backpack too. I'll try to get a good "first day of school" picture of her tomorrow :)

 

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Eve went straight for the sand table at open house today. She loves sand.

School begins tomorrow…

Tomorrow is the first day of school.  My kids love school.  Well, they love being there.  Getting there is another story (the story of my life with Lex!)  Over the past week or so every time I bring up school Lex dodges and avoids the conversation.  Eve, on the other hand, is super excited!  She is mostly excited for her open house tomorrow (basically a meet-and-greet, her class starts Wednesday).

We had a really nice afternoon today. Lex has been saying for a few days now that he needs more mommy time (I love that he says that!) so today Alan took Eve out to lunch and over to my grandparents house for awhile. Lex and I had planned to go out to lunch and a movie, but instead he decided on a home day so we sat in the living room and played Monopoly all afternoon. When we got hungry we had a picnic snack. When he got bouncy we went outside to ride bikes for 15 minutes before the rain started up again. It was awesome! Even more awesome (for him!) is that he kicked my butt at Monopoly! Fair and square. He had a few lucky cards, managed his money well, bought real estate and houses like crazy and gave me a thorough whooping! Then we wrestled on the floor for a bit, rearranged the living room a touch (photos later) and looked at Red Sox baseball playing cards. He was in HEAVEN and therefore so was I. It was great.

The one downside to our afternoon was when I tried to talk about school. I asked how he was feeling about it (nervous), if there’s anything we can do to help (stop talking about it), does he want a big deal or nothing (nothing!). I had the poor boy in tears in a matter of minutes. I tried to explain how similar it would be to Kindergarten, we talked about which of his friends would be there, what the routine would be… but it was all through tears and him begging me to please stop talking about it. Sigh. I know he will have a great time. So we stopped talking about it for the day. I’m hoping tomorrow isn’t too hard.

Sometimes I feel like a slacker mommy because there are so many cute things I want to do for “back to school” season, like this (isn’t he cute!), and pencil cookies I saw in a magazine (last year!) and a special dinner (PYO tonight, of course) or breakfast or lunch box treat. I didn’t have time to prepare before today and today I decided my time would be best spent on the floor with Lex instead of in the kitchen. I definitely made the right choice there! I take comfort that he doesn’t care for (won’t even participate in usually!) the “back to school” excitement. One less thing for me to worry about… now if only I could stop worrying about it! ;)

I predict it will be tough to get him out of the house in the morning, but I’m hoping that once he’s in his classroom and sees his friends he’ll be happy. Otherwise I’ll be peeling a crying 1st grader off me when the bell rings and I’ll walk away in tears. No fun for anyone.

Tomorrow is a super busy day, but I’ll try to get back online tomorrow night to keep you all posted, as I know you’re now dying to know how the day will go. :)

Last day of kindergarten!

Today is Lex’s last day of kindergarten! He’s pretty excited for summer vacation (we all are!) but it was so cute to see his whole class this morning at drop off. They were all bouncing and full of energy. Lex brought his teacher a gift and he was so cute when he gave it to her. He said “This is a present for you for being such a great teacher this year.” :) He picked it out, Eve wrapped it and decorated the paper, I wrote a thank you note. The teacher LOVED it! We got a set of connecting octagons, similar to what we have here, except, as Lex told his teacher, “These are octagons and mine at home are hexagons.” Lex also brought in his yearbook to have everyone sign it. I guess one of the boys (with an older brother!) was doing that yesterday at school and Lex thought it would be a good idea. I can’t wait to see it. I was going to plan a special last-day-of-school something… playdate or outing or something, but we have been so super busy these past few weeks that I think we all just want some downtime. And I have a Board meeting tonight anyway, so it would have a been a rushed “something” anyway. Instead we’ll have snack and make pancakes for dinner and just chillax! Looking forward to it… on that note I have to go meet him at the bus stop! Last time for two years, I think!! (Because of Eve’s preschool schedule next year I think I’ll be picking Lex up at school every day)

Quick Update: He got off the bus today very sadly. He started right in telling me that they celebrated two summer birthdays today and went outside to eat popsicles. I thought that sounded like fun and asked why he was so sad about it. Apparently he had been planning to get all his classmates to sign his book at choice time, but they went outside for popsicles at choice time instead, so he was only able to have a few people sign it on the bus. He was so sad. I wish I could cuddle away all of life’s little disappointments. Sigh. I’m pretty sure he was over it by the time we finished snack though, so it definitely falls under the “little” disappointments category!

A visit to Pre-K

After school today we took a trip to Eve’s future Pre-K to drop off her enrollment paperwork. I was going to just mail it, but a few days ago she said she didn’t remember the school or the teacher, despite the fact that we went there darn near every day for a year bringing Lex to Pre-K. She insisted she had no recollection. I told her we could drive the paperwork over and when Lex heard that he said he wanted to come too! So this afternoon I picked Lex up from school and we took a field trip to the other school :) The timing worked out perfectly and we got there just as afternoon Pre-K was ending. His teacher saw us walk in and she got so excited! She gave him a big hug and asked us to come to the classroom for a visit. Of course! Eve didn’t seem to recognize her or know where the classroom was, so perhaps she really didn’t remember. Lex knew exactly what was going on though. It was so nice to chat with her and she was so happy to see both of the kids!

When he was in school last year they planted bean plants in the spring and brought them home towards the end of the year. We planted his in the garden and it grew a few beans. I took a picture (below) of him eating one of the beans and emailed it to her. In her classroom today we saw the picture hanging on her bulletin board. She said she printed and laminated it because she loved it so much. She has it hanging by her desk and used it to show this year’s class what they were planting. It was such a lovely visit! I love when people are that excited to see my kids! :) We also bumped into another parent of one of Lex’s old classmates. Her son will be in afternoon Pre-K with Eve. I’m sure Eve doesn’t remember him, but they played together last year at pick-up time each day.

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Lex, July 2010

I left with such a feeling of happiness inside! The good feelings continued as we went to the shoe store and both kids behaved super well. The salesman (the owner actually at our awesome local shoe store) asked what kind of shoes they wanted, measured their feet, and got them shoes. They both loved the first ones he picked out. Then he picked out running shoes for me, which I also loved. I felt a little odd not caring about the prices, but turns out the prices were decent and I was willing to pay about anything for the wonderful, smooth process! (Thanks for the gift certificate at Christmas, Grandma!)

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I meant to take a picture of us all wearing our new shoes, but I forgot until after I took mine off. Then I was too lazy to put them back on. It would have made for a better picture though. Oh well.

Then we stopped at a barber shop, on a whim, but when it was Lex’s turn he got scared and wouldn’t sit in the chair, so we left. He’ll be shaggy haired and sweaty headed for a bit longer. Then we went to the playground for a little while, then home for a lovely (pick-your-own) dinner and a smooth bedtime.

Overall a busy, but very nice day on the home-front!