I added a tag called “silly sleepers” to mark all these crazy sleep positions :) Some day I’ll go back through the years of blog posts and tag them all. For now, here’s a starter photo.
Winter
Winter is in the air. I can feel it’s nippy touch on the breeze, it’s darkening in the clouds. I am not ready. Not. At. All. Ugh. I guess it’s time to dig out the winter gear and assess who needs what for this new season. This might be the year I wear two pair of pants. And gloves 24/7. I repeat, ugh!
Quince

Eve decided to eat one. This is her opinion on raw quince.
Harvest!

Think this is enough to make quince jelly?
Maxin’ and Relaxin’
After several weeks of maxin’ I am ready for some relaxin’! Today was perfect. Exactly what we’ve been needing. A “do nothing” day. Alan had to go to a conference (no “do nothing” day for him!) but the rest of us chilled at home, in PJs. Eve woke up with wet PJs but when she heard it could be a pajama day she zipped right back upstairs to grab some clean pajamas. I did some long-overdue exercising, we tidied up after last nights party, we did a lot of reading, including a full chapter of On The Blue Comet (the kids LOVE the book Mema, thanks!), we played games, we did puzzles and built block towers (photos from Lex may be posted soon). I made it to 5:30pm before pulling out my to-do list to write down a few things for next week. I even went so far as to REST during quiet time. We haven’t even had quiet time in ages, what with the kids both being in school in the afternoons now and our string of super busy weekends, but today we all had a nice quiet time. I brewed a cup of lemon tea and plopped my butt on the couch for a cozy date with Real Simple magazine. It was niiiiiiccceeeee……
Tomorrow I’m hoping for more of the same, but it will be punctured by a few chores. We have to go dishwasher shopping in the morning and meet a new babysitter in the afternoon. Both things that need doing (our dishwasher is currently running with the aid of a paper clip! Seriously! Darn technology! But that’s for another post, another day) Otherwise I hope we can do more relaxin’ and less maxin’ for one more day.
Cocktails and Crafts
Inspired by a local blogger’s Cocktails and Crafts parties, my friend and I decided to see if we could get a group going as well. Tonight was our inaugural party.
I was thinking about making ghost feet pictures (like this), but the idea of eight little kids with painted feet running lose in my house didn’t sound appealing. The paint would be washable, of course, but it still sounded risky. Instead we made two tissue paper crafts.
We had lots of fun, including mummy pizzas and warm apple cider (with a little something extra in it for the grownups) and oatmeal cookies.
Eve and I practiced making these crafts earlier in the week, so when it came time tonight she was happy to lead the effort. She helped dole out the supplies and did her best to explain the directions. Most of the kids participated, but a few couldn’t tear themselves away from the vast array of trucks in our living room.
In the end my living room was a disaster, the kids were exhausted, and we were all excited to do it again next month! At someone else’s house! :) We had a really fun group tonight and we have the November party on the calendar, so I hope we can make this a regular thing.
More from today
Alan is reading bedtime stories so I’m going to take a quick minute to post a few more pictures from today. Can’t leave you with lo-qual cell phone pictures for too long!

I'm regularly impressed with the amount of detail that goes in Lego cities. Look at the diving guy right in front? Several other guys have legs raised as though they are mid-step.

See the boat in front, docked. The guy on the boat is stepping off. The horses in the background have water to drink (Eve's doing). So much detail!

Eve, coloring at the WW meeting (where I did not make Lifetime, but I did not gain either!). We ran errands all day in the rain and she was a trouper! She can be such a sweet little friend to have along.
Colors

Eve’s class at school is learning colors and to that end they are supposed to wear certain colors on certain days. Today is black day and she insisted on ALL black! She wore her black pants and shoes, Lex’s black shirt and hat, and Alan’s black socks, pulled all they way up! They go well above her knees! She’s so funny. She wouldn’t smile for a picture, but she behaved perfectly during our super busy morning of meetings and errands, so I’ll take the crazy face. :-o
Busy

Packing for my day, again. Is it any wonder I’m tired?
Motivation
This is week six of the “maintenance phase” on my Weight Watchers journey. Tomorrow I am supposed to weigh in no more than 2lbs over my goal weight. Sadly that isn’t going to happen. After you hit goal you’re supposed to add additional points to your daily target and see if you can maintain your weight instead of continuing to lose. For various reasons I screwed things up on the first day, gained several pounds on our DC trip, and haven’t seen that goal weight since. These past two (hundred?!?) weeks have been super busy and I’m struggling to find time for me. Time to prepare healthy food, time to exercise, time to breath. So tomorrow I will weigh-in and my maintenance phase will continue until I can get it together and get that goal back in sight.
Seems like there should be plenty of motivation, right? Right?!?

Quote from Pinterest
I say there wasn’t enough time for me these past few weeks, but really that’s just an excuse. I make the schedule. I agree to the playdates. I … hell, I can’t even remember all else we’ve been doing. I make the excuses. Why? I seem to be unable to hold on to motivation for any period of time. Every now and again I’m able to grasp it and make good progress, but then it slips away and I make cookies (I have a counter full of cinnamon oatmeal craisin cookies right now!) Where does that motivation go? Why can’t I keep it?
I took a magazine quiz today. It’s been awhile since I’ve done that. It wasn’t a sexy Cosmo quiz, but flipping through the pages of O magazine I saw one called “Tap Your Motivation” which was intended to help me identify my motivation style. Awesome! That’s exactly what I need!! So I grabbed a pen and some scrap paper and thought hard about each of the ten questions. Then I tallied up the scores and eagerly flipped to the outcome. According to Martha Beck there are five motivational styles: Connection, Security, Influence, Accomplishment, and Enlightenment. Guess how I scored? Moderate on all but Enlightenment. Apparently Enlightenment is not for me. That’s good to know, I suppose, but I scored EQUALLY on all the rest. What’s that all about?!? What am I supposed to do with that. I was hoping for some clear THIS MOTIVATES YOU outcome that I could latch on to and rock this thing! (“this thing” being life in general!) Instead I get a lot of moderate. Not really surprising, I am a very moderate person in all aspects of life.
Anyway, I guess the moral of this story is “don’t get to excited about magazine quizzes,” a lesson I learned in my youth but apparently forgot. Lesson two: don’t eat a dozen cookies the afternoon before a weigh-in. Sigh.












