Observations from my first weekend alone

  1. Nothing moves. Not the stuff on the table or the counter. Not the dirty dishes. I can put stuff down and it stays there until I do something else with it.
  2. No one is here to walk the dog or feed the cat.
  3. Cat litter stinks (tbh, that’s no surprise!)
  4. No one is going to eat the stuff in the pantry or the fridge. I have to eat it or toss it.
  5. All the clothes in the laundry are mine.
  6. At the end of the evening, when my brain starts wondering who is where and when everyone is getting home — I have to remind myself that no one is coming home. Not tonight, anyway.
  7. I can have lunch and brunch and tea and visits with friends all I want, without having to coordinate schedules with anyone else (tbh, that was mostly the case when the teens were home too.)
  8. However, after being out for hours, I do have to remember that no one is home to walk the dog or feed the cat.
  9. This post sounded much more clever in my head.
  10. I am not at all alone.