Cooperation

We have had a rough week around here. I don’t really know how to put it into words, but it involved a lot of picking at one another, bugging, agitating behaviors, and me not handling any of it well. Lex had a really hard time at school last week and today. I’m working with his teacher trying to figure out the problem. It hasn’t been pleasant around here.

However, this afternoon they played SUPER well together. The living room ended up a complete mess, but it was really nice to see them liking each other for an extended period of time.

Here they are working together to rescue a toy that had somehow managed to fall behind the toy shelf. (I’m sure it had nothing to do with Lex throwing toys yesterday!)

Their successful rescue efforts led to fort building activities.

I love when they play together nicely.

I have so many other pictures that deserve a place on the blog, but sadly the time just isn’t there these days. Life rolls on, documented or not.

Making change

Here’s a random story for you. The other day I was making cracker snacks for the kids and I put some honey roasted peanuts in the bowls. Sometimes they eat the peanuts, but usually they don’t. As a silly comment I said, “I’ll give you each a quarter if you eat all the peanuts.” Guess what? They did! When I gave Eve her quarter she ran over, put it in her money jar, and came back with a dollar bill for me. She said, “Here’s your change!” I tried to argue with her but she insisted I take the money. If I didn’t want it for change then she insisted I take it for eating my peanuts too. I’d make a fortune if someone paid me for eating peanuts!!

This morning we had a playdate here and we were sweeping the floors before our company arrived. I asked if she wanted to help sweep. She suggested we pay each other for our hard work. Silly girl. So we both swept (with me doing 90% of the work, of course) and I paid her a dollar and she paid me two dollars.

I don’t think she fully appreciates the value of money yet. :)

Brain-o-mania

It’s the start of “Screen Turn Off Week” this year and Lex’s school once again kicked it off with a great evening they call Brain-o-mania. I’m going to be lazy and not go into full detail here, but if you’re curious I wrote a great post about it last year.

The kids were making me crazy this afternoon (and by crazy I mean FURIOUS!) and we almost didn’t make it, but then I decided it would probably be easier to get them out and about instead of staying trapped in the house with them alone all evening! I’m so glad we went. It was a great time and we all had fun. It was interesting to read last year’s post and realize that we did completely different things this year. I don’t think the robotics were even there this year and we didn’t even make it to the art room. Eve held the human brain, with only a little reservation. Lex once again wanted nothing to do with the formaldehyde scented room. He waited, somewhat patiently, by the door for us to be done. Eve also enjoyed the “brain Jell-O.”

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One thing I didn’t mention last year is that they end the evening by playing a really catchy song over the loud speaker. Last year they blasted it and all the kids were dancing. This year it was a little more subdued and I kind of wished they’d blast it again. Either way, it’s a great song and a fun way to end the evening.

I also got to catch up with some other parents I haven’t seen in awhile and chat with some teachers. I came away with a strong recommendation for a second grade teacher for Lex. I’m going to talk to his current teacher about it and maybe put in a request for him for next year. :)

I’m so glad we went this evening! Turn off that TV and take back your brain!!

The downside is that they learn about all screens, and the kids now nag me when I’m on the computer, which I try not to have on when they are around anyway. Lex always says, “Mom, you know how distracted you get when you turn on the computer.” Walking in the parking lot this evening my phone made an email beep and out of habit I pulled it out of my pocket to take a peek. Lex immediately said, “Mom, that’s a screen too, you know, and it’s bad for your brain.” They are good kids. :)

Eve is so smart!

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This is the drop sheet format that Lex’s class is working on these days.  It’s the third format this year.  His student teacher started giving Eve copies each morning awhile ago when they were easier and Eve loves them.  They keep getting harder but she is so smart she keeps doing them! 

She looked at section four and said outloud, “Baby…” Then she looked at the other picture, with the balloons, and said, “Oh, pop!  Pop and pop!”. I love it when she thinks about something, figures it out, and is proud of herself. 

She almost always gets the double consonant in section eight.  The other day there was a drawing of a ham in the top row.  She did it while I was out of the room, getting ham correctly.  I was surprised that she recognized that picture.  When I asked her about it she said, “It’s a ham, like Green Eggs and Ham!” Of course!  Silly me!

Sometimes she lets me put stars on them when she completes the sheet, but other times she insists on bringing it back to school the next day so his student teacher can put a star on it.  :). I joke about saving them all and turning them in on her first day of first grade.  Joke, of course, bec,ause most end up in the recycle bin.  I think she has some work to do on her handwriting before first grade anyway.  She is mighty smart for Pre-K though!!

Nurturer

I think I am a nurturer by nature. If that makes sense. I think that’s why I’m drawn to nursing and teaching. Too bad I don’t like touching yucky things.

I went to visit and bring dinner to a couple who just lost their four year old son to an aggressive brain tumor. He died two weeks ago, to the day. I would call them good acquaintances, but not close friends. However, over the past few weeks I have wanted to do everything possible to take care of them. I’ve had to restrain myself because I don’t really know them that well. Tonight I found myself resisting the urge to wrap them both in my arms and hug all the pain away. Impossible, I know, but that’s what I really wanted to do! Instead I brought them fresh salad, warm chowder, homemade bread and chocolate chip cookies. Hopefully that will at least take a tiny edge off the pain.

Lost in the blog… again!

I’m filling out Eve’s kindergarten paperwork (sob!) and once again find myself lost in the blog. I don’t know why they care when she spoke her first words (8mos), put two words together (16mos), and spoke her first sentence (no idea!), but it gives me a great opportunity to go back through the blog and read all sorts of wonderful posts. I’m so glad I blog, even if it comes in spurts some times.

Boston bound!

School vacation week. When I think about it, months in advance, it always seems like so much time. I make hundreds of loose plans and think we’ll have all the time in the world. Then it arrives and suddenly it’s over! Whoosh. Blink and you miss it. I am not, and hopefully will never be, one of those mom’s who eagerly counts down the days until the kids go back to school. (no offense intended to anyone out there who is)

This week we took a mini-vacation to Boston. We drove down Tuesday morning, checked in to our hotel and then walked to the Children’s Museum. I have never been there and the kids had a great time. Lots to see and do. We even ran into a friend of mine, who was there with her friend and five kids. Her son came up and said hi to Eve. It was a fun surprise. :)

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Snack outside the Children's Museum.

After that we took the subway home (the kids were most excited about that!) and stopped at a Whole Foods Market by our hotel for dinner. I discovered that I love Whole Foods. :) I wish we had one closer by. They had many, many hot and cold salad bars, lots of tofu and other veggie options, and everyone found something tasty to eat. It was jam-packed and therefore I wouldn’t want to do my regular weekly shopping there, but it was a great place for dinner.

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Dinner overlooking the... well, the parking lot to the Whole Food store. Plenty to watch anyway.

The next morning we checked out of the hotel and arrived bright and early (the best time to arrive!) at the Boston Aquarium. The kids were thrilled (subway ride) before we even got there and ever more excited to see seals in a tank outside of the museum. We were having a great time before we even went inside.

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Penguins in front of the aquarium.

I’m glad we got there early because the place really filled up fast! By lunch time I was exhausted and ready to leave. We took a quick trip through the gift shop (at my request, my kids still don’t ask or expect things from gift shops… though I sense that is changing quickly!) then we headed back to the hotel to get our car out of the valet parking before our time expired and they kept it forever! Or just charged us extra. Then we drove over to the Museum of Science where things were already in full swing. We managed to get our tired bodies to the cafe for some lunch and then, re-energized, we hit the Blue Wing. Alan was very excited for the lightening show. (Ask him how he stumped his physics professor in college.) We spent some time in the electricity exhibit, waiting for the show. The more excited Alan got about it, the more excited Eve got, and the less excited Lex got. He eventually insisted on leaving so he and I escaped before the turned out the the lights and turned on the noise. Lex was very tired at this point and I think coming down with a head cold.

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It's electric!

We explored our way through three floors of the science museum before we could go no more. Then we dragged ourselves back to the cafe for a final snack (cookies and m&ms!) and a pass through the gift shop. Lex didn’t pick anything at the aquarium and he saw a super cool magic trick demo outside the gift shop. Guess what we bought? :) You’ll have to ask him about it next time you see him.

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When we found ourselves planted, and transfixed, in front of this huge exhibit (a very large version of Lex's favorite exibit at the Montshire) we decided it was time to get some food.

Then, in case our kids weren’t tired enough and to avoid Boston commuter traffic, we went for a walk to find dinner. It was chilly and windy, but luckily the kids are amazing and they kept it all together. We ended up at The Cheesecake Factory. Have you been to one? It was loud and the menu was overwhelming, but they gave us a nice big booth and the food was good, so we were all happy. One final hurrah before hitting the road!

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We bought a fun book called "Zero the Hero" at the gift shop. That was handy to have while we waited for dinner to arrive.

Then back to the car and back home. New Hampshire welcomed us back with a beautiful sunset and the kids fell asleep in the car. Have I mentioned that the kids amazing travelers? They are!

I posted all of the pictures in a Picasa album. I started adding captions as well, but now both kids are up and I have ignored them for too long. Maybe I’ll get a chance to finish the captions later tonight. Maybe now. The pics are all there though. :)

1204 – Boston MA, April 2012