I so badly wish I had brought my camera to
Lex’s 4yr check up this morning. Sadly I just didn’t think to
grab it. He was happy all morning, then got a little stubborn
when it was time to get in the car. I had plans to go grocery
shopping this afternoon, so I told him if he behaved at the
doctor’s office we could go shopping right away, otherwise we
would come home for lunch/naps and then go shopping. Funny that
grocery shopping is such a good motivator. He hopped right in
the car and was SUPER well behaved at the doctor’s.

The nurse took his blood pressure and he was
so cute sitting in the big chair, feet dangling, with his arm
up and a cuff on. He sat still, but giggled and said it
tickled. Then he did an eye exam! He stood with the eye blocker
thing (no idea what they call that thing!!) and the nurse
pointed to shapes on a chart. He said “It looks like a heart,
and it IS a heart!” (or whatever the shape was) for everything
she pointed at. He listened so well and did everything she
asked. I was kicking myself for not having the camera. He and
Eve got a little wild when I was trying to talk to the doctor,
chasing each other around, opening drawers, etc., but then he
settled right down on the examining table and let her do the
full exam! I didn’t have to hold him or negotiate or anything.
He giggled a few times and said she was tickling him, but he
opened his mouth when asked, sat still, laid down, and did as
he was asked. It was awesome!! Sadly his reward for all of that
was three immunizations :( But even those he handled like a
champ! The nurse had him sit on my lap with one arm around my
back and me holding the other (for the shot), then we switched
sides for two shots in the other arm. Each time he cried, but
didn’t fight or pull away or anything.

I think I’ve told him about a million times today how
proud I am of how well he did and how happy I am that he acted
so sweetly. By the time we got out of there it was 12:00 and I
was ready to head home for lunch and naps, but he reminded me
of my promise and off we went to the grocery store. Much to my
surprise they both acted super sweet at the stores too! We got
home at 2:00, unloaded groceries and then I said we all need an
hour break. Upstairs they both went, with minimal fussing,
stories and into bed. I laid down with Lex and we all snoozed!
They are still sleeping :) It’s probably going to be a late
night, but that’s ok after such a nice day!!

His 4yr stats: 40″ tall, 38lbs, 60% on weight, 40% on
height, 20/20 vision. Perfect.

Should I post an update every day we go to
daycare? Think “Daycare – Day 2290” will be interesting?

Lex woke up this morning insisting that he
would not go to daycare. He argued all morning, saying he
wouldn’t put on his clothes or his shoes. Then wanted to lock
the doors so we couldn’t leave the house. Then wouldn’t get in
the car, or out of the car. It was a joy. By the time we got
there he was kicking and screaming. He flailed and wailed and
then clung to me and Alan like his life depended on it. Upon
the advice of the daycare teacher and several others, we tried
a quick exit today instead of the prolonged 20 stay from the
past few days. Alan hugged him, I hugged him, and then I handed
him over to the teacher, who also hugged him. Then we left and
I, once again, cried myself to work. (I’m a big baby) The
teacher called me mid-morning to say that Eve was complaining
of a stomach ache. I recommended pretzels. When in doubt, feed
them, right? :) She also told me that Lex screamed for a few
minutes, but she sat with him and held him snuggly until he
calmed down, then he was great. He stayed close to her all day,
but he joined the group for circle time and did the activities.
When we got there he was sitting on the couch reading a book.
He didn’t even see me come in! A little girl started yelling,
“Lex, Lex! Your mommy is here” I thought that was cute. He
almost cried when he saw me, but not quite. He was happy to
leave, but overall he had a great day. Now we just need to work
on the drop-off process.

One thing I
hadn’t expected from daycare is how much it wears Eve out.
She’s still a little sick, I think, with a runny nose and cough
when she sleeps, but she cries at the end of each day too. She
also comes home and basically sobs off and on until we put her
to bed early, usually in a crying fit. She’s normally pretty
mellow and goes to bed fairly easily, but these past few
daycare days have resulted in difficult bedtimes. I think she’s
just so tired from the whole experience.

We have a really great Yahoo group of parents in the area
and I posted a message yesterday asking for advice on daycare.
Most people said to have consecutive days so the kids get the
hang of the routine better, but one woman said she
intentionally does not do consecutive days because her kids
need a day to rest up after a daycare day. I may end up
switching the kids to T/TH or something because they may also
need a rest day in between. We’ll see. For now we will leave
things as is for a few weeks until everyone is settled (and
M/TH swim lessons are over).

No more
daycare until next week. Hopefully you’ll all survive a few
days without a daycare update :)

Day three of daycare today. We are all on
the road to health, though not quite there yet. Good enough to
return to work and daycare though. Lex wasn’t very interested
in going back and requested I stay with him for a little while.
I agreed and ended up spending 20 minutes with him on my lap in
tears. I tried distraction, showed him the schedule on the
wall, tried to have him talk to another new girl (not crying),
but nothing worked. Eventually he got off my lap and ran to the
window. The teacher asked what he was doing and he said, “I’m
going to wave goodbye to mommy.” (something he does when Alan
goes to work in the morning) I took that as my cue to leave,
and cried myself to work.

When I picked
them up they both ran to me and cried, but it was more of a
tired cry and short lived. Within a few minutes Lex was talking
to me and showing me a coloring page he made. The teacher said
he did MUCH better today and only cried for a few minutes. He
took a good nap and even played a bit with the other kids. She
said that showing him the schedule was a good idea because he
ran back to it many times during the day and they discussed the
time (the schedule is posted just under a clock), the current
activity, and what was coming next. She thought that was very
helpful. He is a schedule kind of guy :)

When I got him out of the car I noticed a smiley face
sticker on his back. I asked why he had a sticker and he said,
“I earned it because I was the only child who did as the
teacher asked.” I asked what exactly he did, but he couldn’t
remember. A sticker for cooperation is good news to
me!

 

My little ones could be two and four here, or twelve and
fourteen. This photo just gave me a flash to the future. If you
could see the baby doll and train in the bag that might help
you keep perspective :)

Speaking of age,
I’m wondering if anyone cares either way about the Lilipie
birthday tickers? (have I asked this before?) It seemed like a
cute idea when they were babies and in-utero, but now that I’m
looking at a count down to 5yrs old, it seems less cute. Would
anyone care if I remove them? Anyone really like them? Molly
has a “X number of days until baby’s next birthday” ticker
instead. Would that be useful? Or should I just repace the
tickers with a beautiful banner photo instead?

Happy Birthday to Lex!!!
We
celebrated Lex’s 4th birthday today, in a manner much more to
his liking than my weekend efforts. It started early with
blueberry waffles for breakfast. Then he opened fun presents
from Jim, Julie and Molly. The presents have been sitting on
our counter all week and he was super excited to finally be
able to open them. He got a game, a puzzle, and an indoor
sandbox! All three of which were opened and played with almost
immediately.

After Alan woke up
and my parents go here he opened a few more presents. Lots of
balls, a bat, a T-ball stand, books, games, trains and tracks,
sneakers, magazine and museum memberships. A good morning! Then
the family left and we played at home. I made a picnic lunch
and Alan took the kids outside to play T-ball. Lex loved
it!

After lunch the
kids napped and then we all went to the toy store and we let
Lex pick out one thing for his train set (he picked a bridge
set) and then he got his choice of restaurants for dinner.
Guess what he wanted?? Anyone??? Panerea Bread, of course!! A
blueberry bagel with cream cheese is the boy’s favorite dinner.

A day all about
Lex is just what he needed. Other than lingering sicknesses for
everyone, I think a good day was had by all. Tomorrow we try
the daycare routine again.

Happy
Birthday Lex, my beautiful four year old!! It’s been an
amazing, powerful, life-changing, four years! Thank
you.

Today was the day of Lex’s big birthday
party. He helped me with the invites and guest list and we were
expecting 20+ grownups and 15ish kids. Sounds like fun, right?
Or not!

After a fairly uneventful
morning we had a royal rumble at nap time! Possibly our worst
yet. My lucky family got to listen to the whole thing. After
some extreme frustration I said to him, “Do you know what I
feel like doing right now, Lex? I feel like canceling your
party! Calling your friends and telling them not to come. No
cake. No ice cream. No party!” Good threat, right? Lex says,
“yes mommy, please cancel my party.” What!?! I came down and
talked with Alan and it turns out Alan had made a similar
threat during one of his turns in the ring and Lex said the
same thing. Sooo… we canceled the party. I still have no
voice so poor Alan got to call all the guests. Lex continued to
have a rough time, but eventually fell asleep.

Balloons. This is all he wanted for his birthday.
He’s been asking for weeks if he can have balloons for his
birthday. We went to the party store yesterday and he picked
out six balloons and my parents picked them up today. When they
brought them in, he was thrilled. We should have stopped there
and called it a party.

We all crashed onto
the couch for some TV downtime and hoped that no un-RSVPed
guests arrived. We also wondered if Lex would still be in favor
of the canceled party when he woke up.

After a good nap he woke up and I went to get him. Not
only was he still in favor of the canceled party, but he also
asked me to send everyone else home too :) He said “Mommy, I
just want to watch TV on the couch with you. I don’t want
anyone else to be here.” That didn’t happen, but he eventually
warmed up and we had a nice, relaxing afternoon. Some playing
outside, some swinging, pizza for dinner, bike riding, and off
to bed.

This is awesome!

There is a lesson here that I
should have learned last year and hopefully learned this year.
Lex does not like birthday parties. He does not want 35+ people
celebrating his big milestones. So next year when I start
planning his party, somebody, EVERYBODY remind me of this day.
Please! :)

Sadly we didn’t get to show off the crazy purchase
I made for his party. Personalized M&Ms.; We will have
fancy potty treats for many months to come!

Here’s how we found Eve when
we went in to check on them before we went to bed. She doesn’t
look very comfortable, does she. I guess it was an omen for the
night ahead — rough and uncomfortable! Eve spent the night
tossing and turning, fussing and crying. So bad, in fact, that
Lex found his way into our bed at one point and I ended up
sleeping in his bed for awhile. It was easier to get up with
her over and over if I was in their room, instead of crawling
in bed with Lex and Alan each time.

Here’s Eve, showing some
sympathy for mommy in glasses. She was pretty excited that Mr.
Potato Head’s glasses “fit” her :)