Playtime

My friend Michelle brought us dinner
tonight (yummy!!) and tonight was the first time Lex and Dylan
really played together. Normally they play independently
(parallel play, as it’s called), but tonight they chased each
other around the house and played hide-and-seek, toddler style.
It was so funny and they were both laughing so hard.

Lex has become a big fan of hide-and-seek. He
and Alan play a lot. He is very good at the counting and
seeking part, but not so good at the hiding. He’ll put his head
down and count to twenty, then run around the house saying
“Where’s daddy?” He’ll look under and behind things, narrating
the whole way “Not under the table,” “Not behind the chair,”
“Not under the ball.” Yeah, he looks in fairly unlikely places
sometimes :) Then, when he sees Alan, he gets all excited and
says “THERE’S DADDY!!” Very cute. When it’s his turn to hide
he’ll tell Alan where’s he is going to hide and then get very
concerned if Alan doesn’t find him right away. Or else he’ll
hide somewhere, like in the closet, then start counting and
come out when he gets to ten or twenty. I don’t think he fully
gets the concept of hiding :) Needless to say, Alan does most
of the hiding and Lex does most of the seeking when they
play.

So perfect

We have the cutest little family! Look at these
kids (I have kids!! Plural!) Aren’t they adorable? :) Right now
Eve is sleeping on my shoulder (after being awake all morning!)
and Alan and Lex are at storytime at the library. I’m going to
miss Alan when he goes back to work. So is Lex!

On a milestone (kinda) note, at ten days old Eve
has a belly button! Her umbilical cord nubby fell off this
morning, leaving sticky-outtie belly button that looks like a
smile :) Now we can give her a proper bath instead of the
sponge bathes that she hates so much.

Hello Fish

Lex had crackers with dinner tonight. When
one ended up in the rough shape of a fish he announced “there’s
a fish” and began swimming it around the edge of his plate.
Then he swam it right up to his face and said “hello fish, how
are you today?” Then it swam around his plate a few more times
and right into his mouth!

Eve’s first checkup

We took Eve to our new pedi for her first
real checkup. It’s actually the same woman who saw her at the
hospital. When we got there Alan looked at a picture on the
wall and said “Hey, that’s my boss!” Turns out they are married
:) Small world, huh? Anyway, Eve is up to 8lbs 10oz, far
exceeding the “regain birth weight by 2 weeks” goal, and 20.5″
long. She’s a champ! Everyone keeps commenting on what a big
girl she is and she just looks so tiny to me — compared to Lex
anyway. I swear he doubled in size over the weekend. It’s
especially noticeable when he’s on the changing table because
he is as long as the table is and I think his thighs are almost
as big as her belly :) He has been having a rough day today. I
think it’s a combination of the cold and being overtired from
the weekend. He cried off and on all morning, for no real
reason, and pretty much passed out when we put him down for
nap. Hopefully he wakes up feeling a little better.

Pink

We had a great “welcome baby” party for Eve on
Saturday. It was actually a “welcome baby/1week/Dad’s bday”
party. Lots of people and food and presents. Lex took awhile to
warm up to everyone then had a great time running around, and
Eve slept through the whole thing. She didn’t even help open
presents! We are now fully stocked on pink stuff. I did the
pinkest load of laundry ever today. The lint trap looked like a
fluffy pink cloud :)

See? … See?

In the first couple of days, Lex was so
often encouraged to “come see the baby” that it would seem he
is taking the suggestion as literally as one could. He
regularly walks over to Eve when she is accessible around head
height, leans in so his face is within a few inches of hers, and
with his cute, high-pitched, happy-voice, says “See? …
See?”

He will repeat this three or four
times before moving on to other activities. These other
activities often include sweet little kisses, mildly
over-enthusiastic hugs, and most recently, trying to pick her
up or, “hold the baby,” as he says. Obviously, we are trying to
tame the last two for the short term, but so far, Eve has not
complained beyond a few subtle grunts and squeaks. She appears
to be an easy going soul, which she will need if the peace is
to be kept as they get older. Don’t get me wrong: Lex roles
with the punches as well as any toddler I have ever seen, but
he is a wild man to the core, and I wouldn’t have it any other
way.

Mommy’s Eyes?

When I first saw Eve’s eyes by the
hospital light, they appeared to be a very dark blue, almost
black. Now that we have had a few chances to see them open for
longer times in the daylight, there is a clear ring of brown
around the pupil. They are mostly still dark blue, but could be
turning to hazel. If you never noticed Tessa’s eyes, they are
hazel with brown around the pupil: one has more brown than
hazel, the other more hazel than brown, which causes them to
look like two different colors in bright light. So, there might
be an off chance that this one is Tessa’s. ;p

Bank Job

Lex’s favorite song is called
Bank Job by Barenaked
Ladies
. Almost every time we get in the car he
requests it. Just recently he started singing along. It’s so
funny. He sits in his seat, bopping his head back and forth,
and sings along for the first few verses. So funny!

4 days old and other happenings

Eve and I went in for her 4 day checkup and
lactation visit today. All is well. She’s eating like a champ
and weighed in at 7lbs 14oz (8lbs 3oz at birth, 7lbs 9oz at
discharge). Babies are supposed to regain their birth weight by
2 weeks and I suspect she’ll be there by tomorrow!

We are settling in nicely here. The first
night was a bit rough because Eve wanted to nurse every hour
and I was exhausted!! But I took a few naps the next day and
she slept much better the second night (milk came in by then so
she was more satiated). Alan took Lex to gymnastics yesterday
and we all went out grocery shopping in the afternoon. We gave
Eve a plug in the car and at the store. A little earlier than
recommended (they say wait 2-4wks), but I figured it would be
ok since she is such a great nurser. I mentioned that at the
lactation appointment today and was told that it was a-ok :)

Lex is adapting well (so far) to Eve’s presence.
He likes to point her out and poke her and he gives her little
kisses. We’ve taken to reading stories while I nurse. Lex will
bring his books and sit next to me and turn the pages. It’s
sweet. Sometimes he wants baby doll to read with us. Alan is
home now for a few weeks too, which is a HUGE help! I can’t
imagine doing it alone. He took Lex to storytime today and
takes care of the bathes and hauling Lex up and down the stairs
and all that good stuff. And he takes care of me :) We’re a
lucky little family.

I added a few
movies to the YouTube box down the side and here is a cute one
of the whole family at the hospital.
[youtube=http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bHxOzl28O50]

Eve’s Birth Day Story

Friday, March 30th
On Friday (as I said below) we went in for a 41wk checkup and ultrasound. At that checkup the midwife did a membrane sweep and it seemed to help. That evening I started having mild, but regular contractions. They didn’t seem to be getting stronger or more frequent, so we went to bed.

Early Saturday, March 31st
Saturday morning I woke up at 3am and then again at 4am with stronger contractions. I wasn’t able to fall asleep again after the 4:00am waking. I started timing the contractions again and they were still coming very regular (every 10 minutes) and a bit more intensely. I was still able to walk, talk, think, etc, but I knew that today was the day. Just before 5:00am Alan woke up a bit and said “Are you ok?” I said “Yeah, but we will be going to the hospital this morning.” He jumped up and got in the shower :) My mom heard the shower running at 5:00am and also knew what was going on. We were all up and packing shortly thereafter. The contractions still weren’t very painful or much closer together, but I called the midwife and she said to come in. I was going to let Lex wake up on his own because he’s usually up by 6:30am, but he choose today to sleep in, so we ended up waking him up at 7:00am. We got him dressed and gave him a Zone bar for breakfast in the car.

8:00am
We got to the hospital around 8:00am and were promptly shown to a room. When Lex was born we went to the triage room first, but this time we zipped right by there. Probably because they knew how quickly he came and they knew that I was 4cm the day before. So we settled in. The midwife came in and checked me and said I was around 6cm and everything was looking great. Lex and my mom hung out in the room with us for a bit then went down to the waiting room to hang out with my grandparents and Alan’s parents. Contractions were getting stronger, but I was still walking, talking, and thinking.

10:00am
Alan and I went down to the waiting room to say hi to everyone and check in on Lex. He was having a blast in a cool room with new toys, lots of grownups playing with him, and my grandma feeding him graham crackers. I wasn’t feeling terribly social though, so went back to the room after a few minutes. Then the midwife came in and asked if I wanted her to break my water. She said that baby is all lined up and ready to go, but still trying to get through amniotic sack. I asked if it would hurt (I’m a wuss) and she said no, but it would kick labor into full gear and the contractions would come much faster. I said ok, let’s go. So at 10:10am she broke my water and boy was she right. I almost immediately started having stronger and faster contractions. She checked my dilation when she did it and “she’s at 8cm… now 9cm…” :) So I labored with Alan and the nurse on the birthing ball for awhile. They kept asking if I felt the urge to push and as soon as I did it was back on the bed. I couldn’t lie down so they put the head of the bed up as much as possible (the birthing beds are the coolest thing) and I was basically sitting up. This was maybe 10:30ish. I labored here for a few more minutes then started pushing. Labor hurts like hell and pushing is even worse!! I cannot imagine all day (or multi-day!!) L&D; like some people have. Anyway, after pushing a few times the nurses put a birthing bar across the bed (also called a squat bar, pretty cool thing) and I just pushed like hell through two more contractions. It was pretty amazing actually. Because I was more upright I was able to see the baby right away and could tell as soon as she was out.

10:55am
Evelyn Rose came out at 10:55am. She made a wailing face, but no sound came out. I said “cry baby, please cry.” The doctors assured me she was fine and took her to the pedi cart (right next to my bed) to check her for meconium. Since she was late there was meconium in the fluid and apparently it’s bad for babies to inhale. They did the same thing for Lex when he was born. Anyway, I was upright and able to watch as they suctioned her out and then I laid back on the bed and they gave her to me. They asked if I wanted her on my chest right away or after she was cleaned up. Believe it or not I said right away and they put slimy purple baby on my chest. So cool. Alan ran down to the waiting room to share the big news and get a camera (we left ours home!!)

Noonish
After some cleanup my mom brought Lex in to visit. He seemed mildly interested in her. She was crying, he said “there’s baby,” then “there’s a light.” :) Equally interested in both. Such a funny boy. We let him look at Eve a bit and touch her hand then mom took him home for a nap. I feel so lucky that the whole thing happened between morning and nap time so he was able to be around the whole time. I couldn’t have asked for better timing. After a bit more cleanup (I know, I can be vain) my grandparents and Alan’s parents came in. Everyone oohed and ahhed and we took lots of pictures.

Wrap up
So, this story is kind of short, but that’s the sign of a great L&D! The shorter the better :) Eve is doing really well. She took to breastfeeding right away. She was very sleepy after birth, but last night she woke up for good nursing sessions and has been nursing very well today. She has dark blue eyes and shows them off sometimes. She also has a beautiful triangle mouth which makes a great smile. She was a bit purple at birth and the nurses said her face was bruised. Today she is all pink and the bruising is mostly gone and this afternoon she passed her hearing screening and had her PKU test done.

My parents and B brought Lex over for another visit this afternoon. He was here this morning while my parents were at church. He has been amazing this weekend. He apparently has been eating and sleeping and behaving quite well for my parents. I’m so happy because he’s such a mommy’s boy lately I was really worried he’s be a mess when I was gone. I guess it’s like a little party at my house with the grandparents :) He’s always happy to see us again when he comes to the hospital though and sad to leave. I’m happy for the downtime here, but miss him so much too. Mom said that as happy as he’s been, he still won’t let anyone but me and Alan read books to him.

So that’s it for now. I’m going to find a few pics to add to this post and I’ll post more later. We go home tomorrow.