Five year checkup!

We went to the doctor for Eve’s 5yr checkup yesterday. She’s come a long way from this (her one year checkup)…

eve at one

She is happy and healthy and strong, of course. She did everything the doctor asked her to (and then some!) and got a clean bill of health. She weighed in at 45lbs (80%) and was 45.5″ tall (94%). The doctor said that was a big jump in percentile from last year. I measured her on the wall at 44.25″ so I’m wondering if perhaps they weren’t real accurate at the office today. My measurement would have had her on her same growth curve, without the big jump. Anyway, it doesn’t matter. She’s healthy and tall. If you’re paying close attention you’ll notice she is roughly the same height that Lex was at his 6yr checkup! :)

five year old

Big five year old!

eve in car

She no longer even fits in the wooden car they love to play in at the doctor's waiting room.

Pet Show Party

To celebrate Eve’s birthday this year we threw a pet show party. We invited her entire class, plus a few other friends, and hoped for sunny weather. The kids all came, but the weather did not. Nonetheless we had a great time!

To start the theme Eve and I made “Eve’s 5th Birthday Party Pet Show” invitations. We got all fancy with the crayons and copy paper. Nothing but the best in this house. I can’t seem to find a picture (or the original!) so you’ll just have to trust me that they were top-notch!

As the party drew near we prepared by making a bunch of blue ribbon awards and games for the pet show.

blue ribbons

Felt, paper, and hot glue... blue ribbons!

eves ribbons

Eve didn't have patience for the hot glue gun and decided to make her own ribbon with scotch tape. This one is for the "Softest Pet"

pony

We have an early winner! Cotton Candy won the "Softest Pet" award about a week before the pet show! :)

eve

Eve loves her pony. Thanks Aunt Katie!

game

In an effort to find a game that would work both indoors and out (darn unpredictable weather!) we settled on "Pin the tail on the unicorn." Eve drew the unicorn and the tails.

The day before the party we baked and decorated the cake (double layer dark chocolate cake with cream cheese frosting) and added some black fondant “dogs” and “dog bone” decorations. Fondant is not very tasty and quite messy to work with. It was fun for this cake, but probably not something I’m going to do again.

rolling fondant

Fondant is kind of like Play-Doh, only made of sugar. The taste is only marginally better, especially when it's black! On the plate in the background you can see the dogs we made. Mine is towards the front, Eve's is towards the back. I think her's looks more like a mouse on a barrel, but she insisted it's as a dog. Actually she insisted it was Bone and Karma on her cake. :)

cake

My cake designs always come out better in my head than they do in real life. It tasted good at least!

Then the big day arrived! Normally we do afternoon parties and use the morning to get things done, but this party was at 10am so we were scrambling! Lex was SUPER helpful in cleaning and decorating with me. He and Eve made some party signage, he hung up streamers, decorated the door, and cleaned the mudroom! I think the best party decorations are the ones the kids make!

bday table

I like to leave a little something for the birthday girl to find on the table in the morning.

birthday girl

She was surprised and excited to find presents from us! :) She thought she had to wait until her party for presents. I got her a dress and the new Muppet movie.

lex

He refused to get dressed, but he did a great job decorating the house!

bag

No free play at this party! When guests arrived they got a bag and were put to work! :)

vet

A "Pet Grooming and Vet" sign, made by Lex, hung above the office door.

judging

The final stop for the pets was the judging station (ie, the hearth), sign by Eve.

Then the crowds arrived. We had 17 kids, plus most of their parents. The house was tight but everyone tells me they had a great time. There were no tears and no fights (that I saw or heard!) so I’m going to call it a success!

beads

The first task was to make a collar for your pet. Turns out most kids don't have names for their stuffed animals so we got some creative collars. Some made up a name real quick, others put their own names or random letters. It was fun.

photos

Next step was grooming (brushes, bows, etc.) and then a photo with Eve. Alan used my phone and we printed a picture for each kid to take home. Some kids were excited, others refused. Here are Lex and Eve doing a practice run.

judging

Last stop, the judging station. Once each pet had a collar, a grooming session, and a photo with Eve, they were placed at the judging station.

play

Only then were the kids allowed to play! :)

baby

Baby Kate was taking notes for her upcoming birthday! :)

cake p1

Time for cake!

cake p2

Lots of eager children filled the kitchen.

cake p3

Make a wish!

judging

This is the only photo I took of the judging process. I wasn't quite sure how this part of the party would go. It ended up being a throng of children crowding around me while I read the awards. They eagerly clambered for each one. I handed them out and made sure each pet got one, but I'm not sure how appropriate they all were. Everyone had fun though!

most loved

Lex didn't think any of the awards were right for his pet, so he took one of my blank ones (I made a few blanks, just in case!) and made his own award. Most Loved Pet.

presents p1

Time for presents!

presents p2

Many of her friends drew her lovely pictures to accompany their gifts.

hugs

After presents Eve went around and thanked and hugged each of her friends.

rocket

After presents we headed outside. The day was overcast and chilly, but everyone was full of cake and ready to play! The most popular gift was the stomp rocket. The kids (mostly the boys!) were lining up for their turn!

The party officially ended at noon but it was almost one before her classmates all left. Jim and Julie stuck around for awhile longer with their sweet girls. When they left we all crashed. I bought Eve the new Muppet movie thinking she might like that for quiet time, but instead she wanted her usual quiet time (an audio book in her room) while Alan and Lex crashed on the couch to watch the Muppets. I cleared the counters a bit and then got lost in my computer. A few hours later Amanda and Rachel came to visit.

bowling

Paint marker bowling

puzzle

Eve got a 3D Tinkerbell puzzle that was quite challenging!

pizza

We had pizza for dinner and Eve added a few burgundy chocolate chunks to her piece. An interesting way to wash down a sugar filled day!

Happy 5th Birthday to Eve!! I think everyone had a fun-filled day.

Cookies

I know you are all anxiously awaiting the Wild Cookie Extravaganza update! It was a lot of fun. I came in a very close third (and I think I could have been first or second if they had handled the end of voting process a little smoother). The crowd was much bigger than anyone anticipated and it had a really fun atmosphere.

I will post more details later, with photos of course, but right now I am exhausted and tomorrow begins another week! Ciao for now.

The C-word

I’m going to start and end this post by saying, count your blessings, folks, seriously… every day!

A few weeks ago I was talking to my mom about sickness all around – my grandma in the hospital (not cancer!) and several women on a Board I’m on who are dealing with cancer. She made a light hearted joke that I need to find some younger friends! Sadly that’s not the problem. I had the good fortune yesterday to run into an old acquaintance whom I hadn’t seen in almost a year. She is my age, the mother of three young children (her oldest is Eve’s age) and my heart dropped when I saw her rockin’ a pink head scarf! She was smiling, but I know the look of shock on my face was apparent. She has breast cancer and is undergoing chemo, radiation, and an upcoming surgery. My stomach is ill just thinking about her situation. I’ve seen her husband a few times in the past year and he always seems so upbeat and positive, the kids seem happy, and the fact that cancer can happen in this family is heartbreaking.

You think you’re safe. You say I don’t drink and drive, I don’t smoke cigarettes (I needed spell check to even spell them!), I wouldn’t stop to help a stranded stranger (gone are the days of the good Samaritan), but breast cancer… there but for the grace of God, go I.

If your four year old is tantruming for no particular reason, your six year old protesting the pool and making you wonder if you just wasted a ton of money on lessons, your kale wilting in the fridge while your belly aches from cookies… count your blessings my friends. I will begin by counting you…

Anxiety and inspiration

Lex is a funny boy.  We are doing swim lessons again, at Dartmouth.  The lessons are taught by the swim team, one-on-one.  The scene is chaotic, but each child has their own teacher and when we did this last year the kids learned so much!  I was amazed!  The lessons run every day for one week.  This is the week. 

Last year Lex was apprehensive but made it into the water and had fun.  Yesterday was a different story.  He agreed to get in his bathing suit, but would not get in the water, despite my best efforts, those of his instructor and those of the coordinator.  He just wouldn’t. The instructor finally gave up and brought Lex back to me before the end of class. We agreed to try again the next day.

On the way home we discussed what was worrying him. He came up with “my scrape hurts” and “the pool is four foot deep and I’m used to swimming in three feet six inches.” Sometimes he’s too smart for his own good. Especially with that second one. If he didn’t know so much he would never notice the markings on the edge of the pools and worry about those extra inches. But I digress. We talked off and on last night and came up with a plan. He agreed to try a water-proof bandaid over the rather large scrape on his knee (from the playground last week, which is healing and didn’t bother him at all in the aquatic center pool over the weekend!). He also agreed to ask his instructor if there was a shallower part of the pool they could start in. With those two ideas in his mind he went to sleep peacefully last night.

After school today he was anxious again. Together we reviewed the plan. I also added that I think he can probably touch the bottom in the 4′ pool. Maybe just on a tip-toe, but I think he can do it. He tentatively agreed to try and then got silent for awhile. After a few minutes of driving in silence (to get Eve from pre-k) he said, “Maybe I could just show Matt (his instructor) some of the skills I already have?” Hmmm…. this makes me wonder if there were other concerns in his head that he wasn’t sharing or hadn’t yet articulated to himself. I told him that that would be a great way to get started and that Matt probably would love to see his skills. Matt needs to know what kind of swimmer Lex is anyway so he can properly teach him. Lex asked me if maybe Matt would want to see his backwards somersaults. Heck yeah! Who doesn’t?! 

By the time we got to Eve’s school Lex was excited for his upcoming lesson. Excited! I don’t know if he solved a problem he didn’t know he had, or was just excited to come up with an idea on his own, or really wanted to swim and just need a good reason, or what. The boy confounds me sometimes, but that’s ok! We got to the pool, he happily put on his bathing suit, seemed indifferent to the bandaid covering his scraped knee, and eagerly hopped in the pool! And guess what? He had fun! And Matt taught him how to flip in the water. I forget what he called it, but when you get to the end of a lap and flip under the water to start back the other way. Yep, I have no idea how to do that and Lex learned today! All because he found the courage and inspiration to get in the water! I’m proud and confused and totally in love with that little boy!

lex

Lex and his instructor (in the background). The blur in the foreground is a girl jumping off the diving board. All the kids will get a chance to try it on Friday, if they want to. Eve says she is going to do it. Lex says not no, but hell no! Well, his cleaner version of that statment anyway ;)

eve

Eve, walking over to her instructor (the woman in the water watching her) about to jump into the pool. Eve loves jumping into the pool. :)

together

Here they are together, swimming under water towards the wall.

I have lots more to say about life and whatnot… and I was surprised to find 48 photos on my camera this evening. I guess a lot has been going on… just not a lot of time to blog about it! Sorry! For now I’m exhausted and eager to watch the second half of Harry Potter #7. A big thanks to Rosy for our newest addiction (and yes I realize I’m about five years behind the times… )