All of my blog post for the next year and a half are going to be about how exhausted we are around here. Eve was home sick today with an ear infection, I went to school sick (shh!) with a sore throat. I took us both to the urgent care center this afternoon to make sure it wasn’t strep. It’s not, so we will both be back at school tomorrow. Only 27 more days of school! The house plans are totally overwhelming. So many decisions to make and we can only hope that we’re making the right ones! I hope when it all comes together we aren’t like, “Ew, did we really chose that color?” (you can replace “color” with cabinets, counters, fixtures, lights, siding, roofing, trim, flooring, etc!) We have a buyer who made an offer that was way lower than we were expecting. Two realtor confirmed the price though, so we are going with that buyer. The buyer’s agent is also our seller’s agent (they worked for the buyer first), so I hope that isn’t detrimental in the long run. I hope taking the low offer, also the first offer, is better than waiting and listing the place and hoping for a better offer. I’ll never know, of course, cause you can’t know what’s down the path not taken, but I hope we’re making the right choices. Lex went to bed in tears tonight because he is exhausted from his musical rehearsals. The show opens on Thursday and runs through Saturday, so it will be all over soon. Just a few more late practices, then a few very late nights, then he can rest. He’s falling behind on homework and struggling to stay positive. He isn’t thrilled with the job he has on the stage crew (not much to do), but knows that if he sticks with it there will more interesting things to do next year. That’s hard to remember sometimes though. Eve also has a play coming up. She’s be performing on Northern Stage. So cool! (I’m probably repeating myself here but I’m too lazy to reread my previous posts, so sorry, not sorry.) She is struggling with girl friend issues and growing up and all the fun things that go along with that. We all just need a good, long nap! For days! I’m trying to get my financial aid sorted out before my two courses start next week. I also recently found out that my health insurance is so much better and so much more affordable than the miserable plan we have through Alan’s job, so we are in the process of switching that over. Like I said – exhausted! You can probably stop reading the blog now because I’ll probably just post this same nonsense over and over for the next 18 months. On the plus side, I got a new phone. I just went to find a cute kid picture (or even dog or cat picture!) to wrap up this post in style, but all the pictures on my phone are of snap circuits and school kids! Oy! Maybe another time. I need to put myself to bed now before I continue to eat everything I can get my hands on, despite my sore throat. Good night.
We’re building a house!!
Sooo…. we’ve got a few things going on here! First and foremost, we are building a house!! We got an offer on our house and accepted it. Today Alan and I, and dragging Miss Eve along, spent the afternoon picking out cabinets, counters, flooring, and paint! The sales associate was fantastic and helped us narrow down the bazillion options. She even gave us samples, including an entire drawer!, to take home and sit with for the weekend.

These are the kitchen cabinets. Although the color (ginger) is a bit off in this photo and the style will be a bit different.. soo… never mind. :)
We are waiting to hear back from the seller, but it’s looking like we’ll have a July 17th closing date, though the new house won’t be ready until mid-September. Anyone want some company for a few months?!? :)
A whirlwind in Wilder
After years (AND YEARS!) of thinking about it, Alan and I have started moving forward with the idea of building a new house. Now things are moving fast! Over the past few years we ruminated on the idea of major renovations to this house, buying another house, or building. Last summer we came across a great plot of land in the village that we really wanted, but the finances didn’t work out. This spring Alan wanted to move forward with a whole house ventilation system, which was many thousands of dollars, so I suggested we get more information about major renovation so we could do it all at once instead of having to redo the ventilation if/when we renovated. We talked to builders and finances folks and then look at some new construction a few streets over and we were sold! Almost. :) They are building an energy efficient (net zero, I think) development with solar panels and proper siting. Alan has been jonesing for a place over there for awhile now, but I have been resistant because I love our neighborhood and I don’t love how crammed together those houses will be. However, as we continued the discussions (and visited the model home a few times!), I have come around to the idea. Mostly.
We put down a refundable deposit on the lot we wanted and began designing a house with the builders. That process is fun! We also started talking to banks and were told that we could afford this endeavor (yay!) and just this week we brought in a realtor to discuss listing this house. Eeek! The realtors (they are a team of three) did their thing and came back to us with a sale price much lower than we were hoping for, but also with an eager buyer who is looking for what we have, imperfections and all! I called in another realtor (the guy who sold Popcube’s house!) to get a second opinion and his estimate was only slightly higher than theirs. We are now waiting on an official offer from that buyer… though we haven’t even signed sellers paperwork with the realtor yet! Their buyers also REALLY want to move in this summer, and the sooner the better. They have kids and want to be settled before the school year. Of course. As crazy as it sounds, we are considering it. The alternative is to do a lot of finish work (many thousands of dollars worth) to make the house “showable” and then hope, HOPE we get a higher price. Everyone agrees it won’t be much higher though, and we would run the risk of having to carry two mortgages for awhile, which we had been planning on but would rather not do.
Needless to say, there are LOTS of thoughts swirling around in our heads! We haven’t signed any contracts yet, so we could bail on all of it, or we could sell our house by June 30th, be homeless for the summer, then move into a brand new house in September… or, most likely, something somewhere in the middle.
Also starting to wrap up the year at a new job, take two college courses for that job, convince both kids that we are doing the right thing and consider their concerns, plan for a trip to California (yay!), prep for a yardsale next week, train for a 5K, eat healthy for WW, and, um…. other stuff too. :) No shortage of things to do around here!
We have one whirlwind summer coming up, but by this time next year (hopefully!) things will be settled and we’ll be loving our new house with beautiful 12″ windowsills and a family room.
A big day for Eve
Eve came home from school and told me that she qualified for the spelling bee AND got a good role in her upcoming “Shakespeare in School” performance. She is thrilled about both! The fourth grade will be performing A Mid Summer Night’s Dream at Northern Stage! Where real, professional shows take place! She love her part, even though she has to say “ass” over and over (in reference to a donkey, of course). She is also super excited about qualifying for the spelling bee, though not sure she needs to do any studying for the event. She’s got confidence in spades!! :)
Spring Break!
While others headed to places sunny and warm, we headed to the country with lots of dogs and dirt roads. 😊
Eve will be going to 4-H Camp Shankitunk this summer, the same place my sisters and I went when we were her age. We stopped by to visit and show Eve around.

There is a tradition of writing on the walls and bunks. We were surprised to find Eves name already there! 😄 She also found her friend Sarah’s name too.
Despite the lack of sunshine, warmth, sandy beaches, and Disney themes, we still had an awesome vacation! Looking forward to our next trip to the country. ?
Filling in the holes
Arlo did a real number on the yard last summer, with some help from Eve. With spring approaching I was feeling really discouraged about the property, so I did something about it! I planned to hook up the trailer and pick up a load of dirt, but when I pulled up their website and saw that they deliver, well, I couldn’t pass that up. I ordered the minimum delivery am out of top soil with no idea how much “3 yards of soil” really was. I figured we had plenty of holes and lumpy lawn, no shortage of places to put dirt! They even brought me a bag of grass seed to out on top of the dirt.
Luckily I had five helpers on hand to spread this dirt!!
We worked hard yesterday and this morning to get all the holes filled and the gardens covered with fresh dirt. Eve spread grass seed all over the new lawn dirt and now Mother Nature is helping with a little rain. Everyone is happy except poor Arlo who is no longer allowed unattended time on his lead! At least for a few days. 😄
I feel like I won an award!
There is this organization called the Dorothy Canfield Fisher Book Award Committee that does an annual book award (hence the name!). They select 30 new young adult novels and kids around the state read and vote for their favorites. We have been doing that in the library and voting was just this week. This is their 60th year and the committee had an art contest asking students in grades 4-8 (the grades that can participate in the book voting) to design a poster celebrating reading and 60 years of this Dorothy Canfield Fisher book award. Guess what?! One of my students won! She did all the work, I just promoted the contest and submitted her entry, but I kinda feel like I won a little too! :) She gets two signed copies of the winning book (still being voted on) and she gets an award and recognition at the award ceremony! I was hoping to take a few students there, but now I’m totally going to do it!! I’m just waiting for them to announce the date! I’m so excited for her. :)
Happy Easter
Happy Easter! Today was a beautiful, perfect day! The kids were up at 5:15am (thanks Eve!) and eager to see if the bunny brought candy, despite our recent sugar reduction efforts. I was interested to see if the kids are still into Easter as a holiday or not. I did a lousy job of decorating or any sort of prep work, but we bought eggs yesterday (five dozen because they were only .50¢ more than four dozen at BJs!) and managed to get most of them colored before the kids got bored and wandered off. I left a dozen uncolored and Alan made himself some egg salad.
The bunny did come, of course, and there are jelly beans and chocolate eggs in those baskets, plus I snuck in two chocolate carrots from Mema first thing in the morning. I bought one regular sized bag of chocolate eggs and one regular sized bag of jelly beans and divided them between the three baskets (one for each kid, plus the glass decorative one in the middle) and we all snacked on them all day. I’m ok with that and proud of myself for not also buying Cadbury mini eggs and jelly beans and Peeps and eating sugar for weeks leading up to Easter.
Eve was worried about not getting candy and where the bunny would leave the basket. She said it might be on the table like it always is, but she cleared off a big spot on her desk, “just in case.” I left her a big basket with a stuffed animal (same one I leave out every Easter) and a card that I think she made last year.
They are still young enough to enjoy a good Easter egg hunt! Thankfully! :) Alan and I hid the eggs twice and the kids raced to find them, slightly more competitive than they have been in past years.
It was a perfect, beautiful day, but we never made it outside for an egg hunt. After a few rounds indoors I took Arlo for a long walk (I invited everyone else, but no one wanted to join us), then when I got home Lex came outside and we spent awhile raking the front yard and dumping the yard debris in the ravine across the street. By the time we were done with that, and had lunch, Lex was ready to crash on his computer for awhile. His friend came over and they played Minecraft all afternoon. Eve was super tired and spent much of the afternoon in her room, listening to audio books. Eventually she came down, we got the cat litter box cleaned out (it can’t be all fun!) and then she laid down on my bed to watch YouTube videos and I passed out next to her. It’s always a good day when you get a nap, and a great start to our vacation!!
Poetry Slam
Lex worked really hard on a poem for his ELA class and today everyone had to read them out loud at a poetry slam. We were all wondering how it would go.
Amazing!! I am so proud of him! His teacher sent me this video before the school day was even over! She said, “I just had to take a moment to share that Lex brought the house down today with his poem. There wasn’t a dry eye in the room. Well done!!” I think she was proud of him too. <3
Spring gardening
We did a little family gardening today. Arlo dug some big holes, my mom bought pansies, and I planted them. I saw Mother Earth planted crocuses around the yard as well. All was good until Arlo decided to keep working. Poor pansies didn’t stand a chance! :/ I brought him in, replanted the flowers, and will now hope for the best
Eve decided to plant her daisies on Daisy’s grave as well. For some reason that whole part of the lawn is a soggy, muddy mess! We planted the seeds anyway, ’cause that’s how we roll.
Now we sit back and hope that the weather cooperates and doesn’t freeze our little flowers and seeds!
























