A lot going on…

Seems like we have a lot going on lately. Nothing fun and exciting, just stuff to occupy my mind. We had fun at the beach Friday (ok, that was fun and exciting!) and a quiet day Saturday, then Sunday headed down to visit the Johnson family. While we were there we got a call from our neighbor saying a huge limb from one of our trees had fallen on their garden, smashing their archway and damaging their cars (cosmetic damage only, luckily!) They have a “tree guy” friend who came right over to cut the limb up so they could get their cars out. We asked him to check out the rest of the trees on the property while he was there. Turns out the two pines in front are rotting on the inside and need to be taken down ASAP! We also have a maple in front with branches touching the roof. We had to trim them back when we first bought the house because the insurance company wouldn’t insure us otherwise! Seems the tree is thriving and needs another good trim. Sadly insurance won’t cover any of this. Turns out our “tree removal” coverage only covers trees already fallen. The nice insurance adjuster agreed that a little preventative coverage would make sense, but alas, it’s not offered. She also pointed out that now that the trees are a known liability, we may have trouble filing a claim involving them in the future. Great! So we will be having some serious tree work done around here ASAP.

missing limb

There used to be a limb there.

close up

There is a hole between the other two big limbs, behind this gaping hole, that is quite deep and has almost a foot of water pooling in it. Crazy. And scary!

three trees

The two pines on the left and the limb the furthest to the right in the picture all will be coming down. Our lawn will have a sunny new lease on life!

Here are a few more pictures from playing outside yesterday. The forecast called for rain all day, but it ended up being warm an sunny, which was a pleasant surprise.

ladybug

The kids had fun playing with a ladybug they found. Not sure how much fun the bug had. Eve had it crawling all over her.

Sunflower

We finally got a sunflower blooming!

tall sunflowers

The sunflower house has grown so tall! I'm excited to finally get a bloom. I have to go out in the morning soon and get a picture of the morning glories. There are lots of them.

bike meeting

A quick chat while riding bikes.

Some of you may also have heard the saga of our washing machine lately. Something is wrong with it and it’s been making black, greasy streaks on the clothes. It started awhile ago and I thought maybe we left a crayon in a pocket or something, but it has progressively gotten worse and worse and now we are getting giant black smears across our clothes. I’ve tried everything I can think of (and Google for), but to no avail. Today we paid the Sears repair man to come out and take a look. Turns out there are parts behind the tub that are breaking and release grease into the machine. Good news is that it’s fixable, and one of the parts is even still under manufacture warranty… bad news is that it still costs a ton and won’t be fixed for two more weeks. I’ve been taking the clothes to the laundry mat for the past week or so and it looks like we have a few more weeks of that. Sigh. The kids think it’s a great novelty, but I suspect even they will be tired of it by the time we’re done!

fixing the machine

Eve was fascinated and very much wanted to help the guy do his work. She even offered him a piece of pretend cake. We had friends over at the time and I think she thought he was just another playmate :)

Hmm… what else. Grocery shopping the the rain today. My kids used to be a joy to shop with but now they are just obnoxious. I’m not sure what went wrong. Instead of walking along nicely or riding quietly in the cart, they run around like crazy people, play with everything they can get their hands on, beg for stuff, etc. Last week’s trip ended with Lex pinching and hitting me while I was paying and then I had to carry him out, screaming and crying, while a nice store employee pushed the cart with Eve and the groceries. That was annoying. We had no fights at the store today, but I came home exhausted. I think I’ll be doing my grocery shopping while they are in school from now on!

This weekend we are going to a Blue Angels air show. That should be interesting. Then Monday is Lex’s first day of school. Oh, and this Friday is his kindergarten open house where we’ll get to meet his teacher and classmates, see the classroom, explore a school bus, etc. I’m hoping to get a school calendar and lunch menu as well. I was talking to Lex last night about buying lunch at school and he gave me this amazingly awesome look. A combination of disbelief and skepticism and amusement.. I don’t even know. Alan and I almost fell over laughing. I’m not sure Lex fully comprehends the duration of his school day. I suspect around lunch time he’ll be asking to come home. I hope it goes well!

While I’ve been writing this book blog post, I have also been up and down the stairs a dozen times dealing with Eve, who is giving me a fight like never before. Kicking, screaming, hitting, flailing, etc. She got no stories, no bath, no dinner… ugh. Maybe grocery shopping is just suddenly too stimulating for them or something. It was a fight on par with what Lex used to give us, but new for her. I hope this phase passes quickly!

Ok, this has gone on long enough. To end on a good note, here is a (somewhat blurry) picture from our rasslin’ match this morning. The kids were antsy so we had a good half hour of rolling around on the floor. At one point Lex noticed his reflection in the TV and said “this would make a cute picture.” Then he got up and go the camera!!! He giggled himself back into a similar pose and let me take a picture. Cool, huh?! Cute anyway :)

wrestling kids

A sunny day at the ocean

We had a super fun Friday this week!  The sun was shining and we piled into the car and headed to the ocean!  We met Julie and Molly at the beach and everyone had a blast.  The weather was warm and sunny, the water was cold and salty, and it was great.  The kids powered right through nap time and we stayed until 3:30 before deciding to move the party back to Julie’s house.  Eve and I took a little snooze in the car and were ready to party more when we got there.  Pizza and playing rounded out our lovely day.  Then back in the car for a long, tired, sandy drive home!

Lex loves the waves

Lex loves the waves!

Eve

Stylish Eve

Sail boat

It was fun seeing sail boats on the horizon.

Snack time

Can't have a day at the beach without lots of snacks. I didn't even pack lunch, just tons of snacks :)

Eve joins another family

Eve joined another family for awhile. She heard a baby crying and got very concerned. She went over to check on the baby and decided to stay awhile. The ladies loved her. It reminded me of family trips with Joyce :)

Cutie

Isn't she adorable?!

Really loves the waves

He really loves the waves!

Family picture, attempt 1

I thought it would be fun to get a nice family picture. I envisioned four of us smiling, sunny day, beautiful ocean in the background... well, not quite. Lex wanted nothing to do with it, Molly wanted everything to do with it, the wind was blowing, we were laughing... so this is what we got.

Family picture, attempt 2

Not quite what I envisioned, but beautiful nonetheless! (PS. I'd take Molly in my family any day!)

Outdoor fun

Here are a few pictures from today. It was a quiet day spent mostly playing outside.

new shoes

Check out Eve's new shoes. We went shoe shopping at a "buy one get one" sale on kids shoes. They both got new sneakers and they both chose sneakers with laces. Guess we have some tying lessons in our future!

sunflower garden

Check out our sunflower garden. The sunflower plants are HUGE, but no sunflowers yet. I'm confused. We have a handful of morning glories growing, but all about knee height, none have made it to the top.

climbing eve

Eve is getting adventurous with her climbing lately. She makes up here, up to the top of the other play set, and even tried climbing out across the swings like Lex does. She's growing up so fast!

Dinner update

I’m sure you’re all curious how our family meal plan is going. I’m sorry I’ve gotten lax with the daily updates, but really it’s not that exciting. The first week Eve, Alan, and I enjoyed tasty meals and Lex went to bed hungry. This ended in him waking up Saturday morning feeling very sick. He threw up some stomach bile and eventually was able to eat some food. I think maybe he realized that his stomach was too empty. The next week Eve, Alan, and I enjoyed tasty meals while Lex sat at the table with us (yay!) and ate carrots. I think maybe he also had some cucumbers and applesauce that week. Earlier this week he decided to branch out and try green peppers. The next night he tried yellow peppers and told me that if I bought corn on the cob he would try that too. He says, “I think I used to like corn on the cob when I was little.” Oh if only he ate everything he used to like when he was little! Tonight he ate corn on the cob and grapes for dinner. And three bowls of watermelon for snack! The fruit and veggies dinners seem silly, but he gets plenty of grains throughout the day (like a big bowl of oatmeal for lunch) and milk with two or three meals, so I think we’re doing ok. The key is he now sits with us, eats what he likes on the table, and doesn’t complain. It’s awesome!! :)

PS. He starts school in 12 days. Eek!

Happy Birthday Rosy!

Rosy came to visit us for her birthday. Aren’t we lucky?!?!? I think we are! She stole me away for a Zumba class and a big sale at King Arthur. Then we had a little party with the grandparents. A good weekend!

I made a Hershey chocolate bundt cake with milk chocolate ganache on top and coconut shavings. Eve helped me decorate the cake.

some for the cake

Some for the cake...

and some for eve

... and some for Eve.

After dinner she opened presents, again with help from Eve.

presents

Present time!

birthday girl

The birthday girl!

Reading is awesome!

Lex
Lex can read. Really, seriously read. Have I mentioned this lately? I tend to take it for granted since he’s been reading for years (what 5yr old hasn’t?!?) but every now and then it really strikes me. Like yesterday when he told me that saliva is another name for spit. “I read that in The Encyclopedia of the Human Body!” he tells me. Or this morning when he sat on the couch for quite awhile reading a Raggedy Ann book, a 93 page chapter book with very few pictures. He whizzed right through it. A few days ago we were sitting on the couch together and he was reading a Magic Tree House book while I waited for Eve to pick out a book for me to read to her. I started reading over his shoulder and I was barely finishing pages before he was turning them. Mind blowing! At lunch today he informed me that he is not color blind and that his tongue was playing tricks on his brain. He then gave me lots of details about color blindness and taste buds. Separate thoughts, of course. Awhile ago he stopped reading in the car and it was pure torture. I’ve always considered him a great traveler and it only sort of occurred to me that it’s because he reads. When he stopped reading in the car he whined and complained the whole way to my parents house. Fortunately we figured out the problem and he’s reading again. Whew!

The only down side to this is I have to be careful of the content he reads. I was going to buy him some books at a yard sale last weekend, but they are aimed at 5th and 6th graders and seemed to have some ideas that I don’t want him to have yet. Along the lines of school bullying, teasing, harassing the teacher, etc. Things that might be funny for 12yr olds, but I’m not ready for him to have that exposure yet.

I’m just so proud of him lately. He has been overcoming his fears and accomplishing some big things lately. Sitting at the table, eating a few things, learning to wipe himself, wiggling that tooth until it came out… all things that don’t seem monumental, but to him I know they are. He even asked me today what we’re having for dinner.  I told him and he said, “Don’t forget the carrots.  They are my favorite!” :)  He worked (and continues to work) hard and I’m so proud of him. I love the boy he is growing into.

Here are a few pics from our week…

Eve pouting

Eve pouting, playfully, at Walgreens

blueberry field

Our own piece of heaven, our new favorite blueberry patch.

Lex waving

"C'mon mom!" he calls to me.

Blueberry Eve

Happy Blueberry Eve

Eve checks out the hair dryer

Eve checks out the hair dryer while...

Lex gets a haircut

Lex gets a much needed haircut.

Climbing boy

Climbing boy

Climbing girl

"I can do it. I'm very strong!" she encourages herself, all the way up and back down.

Rockets in your pockets

Lex filled his pockets with rocks, with Eve's help, and then happily told me "Mom, I have rockets in my pockets!" He is big into rhyming these days :)

Rocks by the track

Those rocks, as well as a few we painted eons ago, made their way into the elaborate train setup covering my living room floor.

Bear hugs

We went to the science museum this morning and ended up taking a walk on the nature trails. It was fun.

BREAKTHROUGH!!

Oh what a day! Besides the obvious niceties (running errands, happy stories, a trip to the blueberry patch) Lex surprised me by joining us for dinner tonight! Alan said he joined them for dinner last night, but I wasn’t around so it doesn’t count! :) Tonight he ate about three full carrots and half a cucumber (cumbercue, he calls them, just to make me laugh) and he sat with us the whole time. He even smelled the rest of the dinner and asked what was in it. Oh happy day!

Then… to top off the evening, he got his tooth out!! All by himself! For the past few days he’s been letting Alan and I wiggle it and gently pull on it. Tonight he said it was really loose and while we read stories he worked on it. He figured out that he could push it in such a way that it seemed to get looser, so he did. While we were laying down (lights out, all settled) he said, “I think it’s out!” Lights back on, lots of cheering and jumping about. Yay! He has been so brave lately. I really admire him and I’m so proud of how rational he can be, when given the chance. We are working on big (for him) changes around here and he’s holding up really well. I think I need to go squeeze him now! :)