{"id":937,"date":"2005-09-17T08:58:00","date_gmt":"2005-09-17T08:58:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tessa.datdec.com\/wordpress\/?p=937"},"modified":"2005-09-17T08:58:00","modified_gmt":"2005-09-17T08:58:00","slug":"plight-of-mothers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/?p=937","title":{"rendered":"Plight of mothers"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Does being a mom now forever doom me to<br \/>\n    being the last one to bed at night and the first one up? I<br \/>\n    guess techically Lex is the first one awake, but I&#8217;m the first<br \/>\n    one up. And then he goes back to sleep an hour later and I&#8217;m<br \/>\n    still up. They don&#8217;t tell you this little tidbit in parenting<br \/>\n    books. <\/p>\n<p>Speaking of tidbits, I was<br \/>\n    reading an article the other day (<a href=\"http:\/\/www.parents.com\/october\" target=\"_new\">Parents<br \/>\n    magazine<\/a>) about pregnancy and babies around the<br \/>\n    world. It actually wasn&#8217;t an article so much as a series of<br \/>\n    photos and bullet points. For example, did you know that in<br \/>\n    Norway employers are required by law to give new mothers 46<br \/>\n    weeks of time off at full pay! Or 52 weeks at 80% pay. This<br \/>\n    country requires 12 weeks and no pay. Go US. Also, Norwegian<br \/>\n    mothers are allowed 2 hours off each day for breastfeeding.<br \/>\n    Here we try to pump real quick in the bathroom before anyone<br \/>\n    notices we&#8217;re gone for long. One the other side though, are<br \/>\n    countries like Mali where 10% of women die from pregnancy or<br \/>\n    childbirth and newborns are often fed sugar water, tea, or<br \/>\n    urine because these are believed to have medical benefits. And<br \/>\n    in parts of India it is believed that drinking a glass of water<br \/>\n    that you&#8217;re mother-in-law has dipped her big to into will help<br \/>\n    progress labor. Anyway, it&#8217;s a very interesting article. And it<br \/>\n    got me thinking about misconceptions here in this country.<\/p>\n<p>I find it amazing that with all we know<br \/>\n    in this country, you still get tons of conflicting information<br \/>\n    from various sources (books, parenting magazines,<br \/>\n    pediatricians, etc.) It&#8217;s no wonder people stress out about<br \/>\n    pregnancy, birth, and parenting. Even basic things seem to be<br \/>\n    in dispute. For example, most of what I&#8217;ve read says that a<br \/>\n    babies eye color can change all the way through their toddler<br \/>\n    years. Then I read in a magazine the other day that after 9<br \/>\n    months the eye color will not change (yes, they said it quite<br \/>\n    matter of factly). It seems silly that there would be conflict<br \/>\n    about something that basic. Either there are cases of eye color<br \/>\n    changing in toddler years or there aren&#8217;t. How hard is this.<br \/>\n    Makes me question everything else they say too. Anyway, I guess<br \/>\n    the secret to good parenting is to read what you can and make<br \/>\n    your own decisions. Heck, that&#8217;s probably the secret to a good<br \/>\n    life :)<\/p>\n<p>Anyway, Lex is awake now and I<br \/>\n    have pay some bills so we can go shopping today. Busy, busy<br \/>\n    Saturday.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Does being a mom now forever doom me to being the last one to bed at night and the first one up? I guess techically Lex is the first one awake, but I&#8217;m the first one up. 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