{"id":329,"date":"2008-10-02T20:24:00","date_gmt":"2008-10-02T20:24:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tessa.datdec.com\/wordpress\/?p=329"},"modified":"2008-10-02T20:24:00","modified_gmt":"2008-10-02T20:24:00","slug":"dont-forget-the-boy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/?p=329","title":{"rendered":"Don&#8217;t forget the boy!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a onblur=\"try\n    {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_xGc8ytldDks\/SOVtkBvzjEI\/AAAAAAAAEBQ\/AtWaaNBAMT4\/s1600-h\/IMG_3132.JPG\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor:\n    pointer;\" src=\"http:\/\/3.bp.blogspot.com\/_xGc8ytldDks\/SOVtkBvzjEI\/AAAAAAAAEBQ\/AtWaaNBAMT4\/s320\/IMG_3132.JPG\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5252725006109215810\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a>Lex is an amazing person these days. Three<br \/>\n    really seems to suit him. He is still barrels of energy, but he<br \/>\n    can settle himself down, usually, when necessary. My family was<br \/>\n    in town last weekend and we went out to brunch. I brought along<br \/>\n    a coloring book and a few crayons (turns out the restaurant had<br \/>\n    64 crayons though!!) Lex sat quietly through the whole meal! He<br \/>\n    ate his food, colored with the crayons, did the activities, and<br \/>\n    was very well behaved. I think Uncle B sitting next to him<br \/>\n    helped a lot! Grandpa entertained Eve on the other end of the<br \/>\n    table and I think it was the first restaurant meal in 3 years<br \/>\n    that didn&#8217;t end with Alan or I chasing kids around. Lex also<br \/>\n    has a renewed interest in drawing and has started to make<br \/>\n    recognizable shapes. Nothing like our friends Lauren and Sarah<br \/>\n    (they are amazing!) but he draws lines and squiggles and then<br \/>\n    tells me, &#8220;Mom, I made a balloon!&#8221; Or a box, or an animal, or a<br \/>\n    rainbow. He&#8217;s branched out from just drawing rivers, which is<br \/>\n    refreshing :) He also seems to like activity books, which is a<br \/>\n    new thing for him.<\/p>\n<p><a onblur=\"try\n    {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_xGc8ytldDks\/SOVtkbl36TI\/AAAAAAAAEBY\/iO7QnIkBL44\/s1600-h\/IMG_3161.JPG\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor:\n    pointer;\" src=\"http:\/\/4.bp.blogspot.com\/_xGc8ytldDks\/SOVtkbl36TI\/AAAAAAAAEBY\/iO7QnIkBL44\/s320\/IMG_3161.JPG\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5252725013046880562\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a>His other big development is on the food front.<br \/>\n    He&#8217;s gone from eating barely anything, to eating some things!!<br \/>\n    :) I read a book called <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Food-Fights-Nutritional-Challenges-Parenthood\/dp\/1581102445\">Food<br \/>\n    Fights<\/a>, written by Dr. Shu, our old pedi, and she had<br \/>\n    a great part about the &#8220;no thank you bite.&#8221; Have I written<br \/>\n    about this before? Anyway, the idea is that instead of<br \/>\n    pressuring your kid to eat everything on their plate, just give<br \/>\n    them a little of the real dinner and something else they will<br \/>\n    like. Then have the kid take one bite of everything and if they<br \/>\n    don&#8217;t like it they can say &#8220;no thank you&#8221; and they don&#8217;t have<br \/>\n    to eat any more. I always thought this was a good idea, but Lex<br \/>\n    would flat out refuse. The idea is that once they have tasted<br \/>\n    everything they can then have more of what the like or dessert<br \/>\n    or whatever. Lex would just leave the table without eating<br \/>\n    anything. Frustrating! Then a few weeks ago something in his<br \/>\n    brain clicked (I think it was triggered by the carrot harvest!)<br \/>\n    and he has become quite a reasonable eater. He still whines<br \/>\n    sometimes, but for many days now he has tasted everything on<br \/>\n    his plate, often announcing that he DOES like the food. Today<br \/>\n    he ate an apple with sunflower seed butter and raisins for<br \/>\n    snack. That&#8217;s a huge and healthy deviation from goldfish and<br \/>\n    bunnies. At dinner he ate all of his green beans, more apple,<br \/>\n    and his bagel. We&#8217;ve been keeping the fruit bowl full and on<br \/>\n    the table, which is good for my WW purposes and apparently good<br \/>\n    for him too. On a regular basis he will help himself to a piece<br \/>\n    of fruit with his meal. So cool!! I&#8217;m loving this new phases<br \/>\n    and feeling like a much more competent mommy. <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">(In the picture they are eating<br \/>\n    SFSB&H; sandwiches, but Lex decided after the fact that<br \/>\n    he wanted cream cheese as well. At his insistence I put cream<br \/>\n    cheese right on top of his sandwich, and, of course, she wanted<br \/>\n    some too. I thought it sounded pretty yucky, but they both ate<br \/>\n    it up.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><a onblur=\"try\n    {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}\" href=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_xGc8ytldDks\/SOVtkoivsHI\/AAAAAAAAEBg\/wzWonJJWhns\/s1600-h\/IMG_3176.JPG\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor:\n    pointer;\" src=\"http:\/\/1.bp.blogspot.com\/_xGc8ytldDks\/SOVtkoivsHI\/AAAAAAAAEBg\/wzWonJJWhns\/s320\/IMG_3176.JPG\" alt=\"\" id=\"BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5252725016523419762\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a>He is almost completely done with naps now. This<br \/>\n    is good and bad. He tends to be very tired by the end of the<br \/>\n    day (and so am I!) but he also goes to bed much earlier. The<br \/>\n    past few days he&#8217;s been in bed by 7pm (6:30 tonight!) and more<br \/>\n    and more he goes to bed easily. Last night we finished stories,<br \/>\n    he put them back on the shelf and went right up stairs. It was<br \/>\n    great!<br \/><span style=\"font-style: italic;\">(Here<br \/>\n    he is playing with the recorder from our hand-me-down music<br \/>\n    kit. He&#8217;s started being interested in music and we listen to<br \/>\n    lots of CDs and sing and dance along.)<\/span><\/p>\n<p>I think I&#8217;m done for now :) Its just amazing<br \/>\n    to watch him become a little person. Smart, funny, and often<br \/>\n    even rational. We&#8217;re pretty lucky to have him around!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Lex is an amazing person these days. Three really seems to suit him. He is still barrels of energy, but he can settle himself down, usually, when necessary. 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