{"id":20473,"date":"2025-09-01T21:07:38","date_gmt":"2025-09-02T02:07:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/?p=20473"},"modified":"2025-09-01T21:07:38","modified_gmt":"2025-09-02T02:07:38","slug":"observations-from-my-first-weekend-alone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/?p=20473","title":{"rendered":"Observations from my first weekend alone"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Nothing moves. Not the stuff on the table or the counter. Not the dirty dishes. I can put stuff down and it stays there until I do something else with it. <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>No one is here to walk the dog or feed the cat.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Cat litter stinks (tbh, that&#8217;s no surprise!)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>No one is going to eat the stuff in the pantry or the fridge. I have to eat it or toss it. <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>All the clothes in the laundry are mine.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>At the end of the evening, when my brain starts wondering who is where and when everyone is getting home &#8212; I have to remind myself that no one is coming home. Not tonight, anyway.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I can have lunch and brunch and tea and visits with friends all I want, without having to coordinate schedules with anyone else (tbh, that was mostly the case when the teens were home too.)<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>However, after being out for hours, I do have to remember that no one is home to walk the dog or feed the cat. <\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>This post sounded much more clever in my head.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I am not at all alone. <\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-gallery has-nested-images columns-default is-cropped wp-block-gallery-1 is-layout-flex wp-block-gallery-is-layout-flex\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"769\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"20474\" src=\"https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/wp-17567786320167789048099863640025-769x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-20474\" srcset=\"https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/wp-17567786320167789048099863640025-769x1024.jpg 769w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/wp-17567786320167789048099863640025-376x500.jpg 376w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/wp-17567786320167789048099863640025-768x1023.jpg 768w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/wp-17567786320167789048099863640025-1154x1536.jpg 1154w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/wp-17567786320167789048099863640025-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/wp-17567786320167789048099863640025.jpg 1502w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 769px) 100vw, 769px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">She&#8217;s a little blue.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"769\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"20472\" src=\"https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/wp-17567778443662864634536682871586-769x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-20472\" srcset=\"https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/wp-17567778443662864634536682871586-769x1024.jpg 769w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/wp-17567778443662864634536682871586-376x500.jpg 376w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/wp-17567778443662864634536682871586-768x1023.jpg 768w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/wp-17567778443662864634536682871586-1154x1536.jpg 1154w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/wp-17567778443662864634536682871586-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/wp-17567778443662864634536682871586.jpg 1502w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 769px) 100vw, 769px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Dog walks help me discover cool plants.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"769\" height=\"1024\" data-id=\"20471\" src=\"https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/wp-17567778171464032790045866665647-769x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-20471\" srcset=\"https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/wp-17567778171464032790045866665647-769x1024.jpg 769w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/wp-17567778171464032790045866665647-376x500.jpg 376w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/wp-17567778171464032790045866665647-768x1023.jpg 768w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/wp-17567778171464032790045866665647-1154x1536.jpg 1154w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/09\/wp-17567778171464032790045866665647-225x300.jpg 225w, 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