{"id":18489,"date":"2021-08-23T21:02:29","date_gmt":"2021-08-24T02:02:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/?p=18489"},"modified":"2021-08-23T21:02:29","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T02:02:29","slug":"a-big-day-all-around","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/?p=18489","title":{"rendered":"A big day all around!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>School starts tomorrow. In normal town this day would have been spent celebrating the last day of summer and getting ready for school. I think I need another month so I can do those things! Instead today we 1) got news from the judge 2) bought a car and 3) &#8230; umm&#8230; I guess that&#8217;s it. It just felt super big and busy!<\/p>\n<p>The judge in B&#8217;Lake&#8217;s merits case ruled that merits were found and the boy are to remain in custody! It was a huge relief and I let out a big breath I didn&#8217;t realize I was holding. There are more steps in this process, but we now know that he&#8217;ll be staying here with us for the foreseeable future and brother will be safe as well. Thankfully!<\/p>\n<p>On the car front, Lex and Alan have been doing some research on used electric cars. If you don&#8217;t know, the used car market is HOT these days. And by HOT I mean, cars are flying off the lot and dealers are charging a fortune. :\/ They found several used Nissan Leafs and a used electric Ford Focus. We drove up to Burlington today to check them out. Lex drove a pretty red Nissan Leaf, but it was a little more money than we were hoping to spend and the dealer had zero interest in negotiating. He told us his dealership hasn&#8217;t sold below list price in many, many months. We decided to go check out the Ford Focus at a different dealership and Lex decided he liked that car better. It&#8217;s a 2014 (one year newer than the Leaf) and has a backup camera, which surprisingly, the Leaf didn&#8217;t have.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_18493\" style=\"width: 510px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674620627677466488304217216.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18493\" class=\"wp-image-18493 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674620627677466488304217216-500x375.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" srcset=\"https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674620627677466488304217216-500x375.jpg 500w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674620627677466488304217216-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674620627677466488304217216-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674620627677466488304217216-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-18493\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">2013 Nissan Leaf<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_18495\" style=\"width: 510px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674614648236619601150620531.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18495\" class=\"wp-image-18495 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674614648236619601150620531-500x375.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" srcset=\"https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674614648236619601150620531-500x375.jpg 500w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674614648236619601150620531-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674614648236619601150620531-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674614648236619601150620531-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-18495\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">2014 Ford Focus Electric<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Lex drove it, Alan drove it, we had a little discussion, and bought a car!! I&#8217;m in the process of refinancing the house and will get some money out of it to pay for the car, so Alan wrote a check against his stock account (or something) for the short term and I&#8217;ll pay it off when the house closes. I was shocked at how much quicker the car buying process goes when you don&#8217;t need a loan!<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_18494\" style=\"width: 385px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674603917320301929763969221.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18494\" class=\"wp-image-18494 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674603917320301929763969221-375x500.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"375\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674603917320301929763969221-375x500.jpg 375w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674603917320301929763969221-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674603917320301929763969221-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 375px) 100vw, 375px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-18494\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Eeek! Lex and his first car.<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_18496\" style=\"width: 385px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674593343432361233045390850.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18496\" class=\"wp-image-18496 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674593343432361233045390850-375x500.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"375\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674593343432361233045390850-375x500.jpg 375w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674593343432361233045390850-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674593343432361233045390850-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 375px) 100vw, 375px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-18496\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">I mean, Lex and his first car and his silly dad. :)<\/p><\/div>\n<p>The Focus doesn&#8217;t have a long enough range to get from the dealership to our house, so Lex stopped at Alan&#8217;s house for a few hours to charge, geek about the car, and have dinner. I headed right home to see Eve for a few minutes and then pick the other one up from his new job. Lex drove himself home in the rain and dark and fog. I worried just the right amount and everything was ok. :)<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_18490\" style=\"width: 510px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297700768519146056105106638531.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18490\" class=\"wp-image-18490 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297700768519146056105106638531-500x437.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"437\" srcset=\"https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297700768519146056105106638531-500x437.png 500w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297700768519146056105106638531-768x671.png 768w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297700768519146056105106638531-1024x895.png 1024w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297700768519146056105106638531-343x300.png 343w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297700768519146056105106638531.png 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-18490\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Alan&#8217;s car and Lex&#8217;s car. Can you tell the Tesla Model 3 from the Ford Focus? :)<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Throughout the whole day I was getting incoming back-to-school emails, website update emails, and having conversations with the bank about the refi and an estate attorney about updating those docs. I felt like a very busy person! :)<\/p>\n<p>Tomorrow we go back to school. Five full days a week. All in person. Lex will be driving himself to and from school. B is taking the bus (unlike the other two, B&#8217;Lake says the bus is just fine and he sees nothing wrong with it), and E has chosen to have me drop her off at school each morning, even though that means she&#8217;ll get there 45m early each day! She said that beats taking the bus. Our sweet carpool deal from last year was complicated this year because of the closed bridge right between our two houses, making a short drive much much longer and therefore way less convenient.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_18491\" style=\"width: 510px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674627123594673677571121177.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18491\" class=\"wp-image-18491 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674627123594673677571121177-500x375.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"500\" height=\"375\" srcset=\"https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674627123594673677571121177-500x375.jpg 500w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674627123594673677571121177-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674627123594673677571121177-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674627123594673677571121177-400x300.jpg 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-18491\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">My bulletin board with 250ish student names on it. :) It looks like confetti to me. &#x2764;<\/p><\/div>\n<p>I&#8217;m looking forward to seeing all the kids again, and the fun of school, but dreading the humidity in my unairconditioned library and a little anxious about getting back into the swing of early mornings, work\/school\/work\/karate\/meetings\/activities\/etc. I&#8217;m already looking forward to next weekend! LOL!<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_18492\" style=\"width: 385px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674632358157659976496544390.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-18492\" class=\"wp-image-18492 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674632358157659976496544390-375x500.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"375\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674632358157659976496544390-375x500.jpg 375w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674632358157659976496544390-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/familyblog.datdec.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/wp-16297674632358157659976496544390-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 375px) 100vw, 375px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-18492\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">This was my library last Friday morning. &#x1f975; I can&#8217;t wait until they fix the AC!<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>School starts tomorrow. In normal town this day would have been spent celebrating the last day of summer and getting ready for school. I think I need another month so I can do those things! 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